I told you about a friend previously that I slept with. I mentioned that he doesn't reply to my emails before and when I saw him he was apologising. Well after that day he went back home for the easter break in the holidays and it isn't far from where I am from (an hour on the train), I emailed him at the beginning of the holiday and the whole holiday he didn't email me back or ring me (for 3 weeks) but he emailed and contacted his male friends only. The email was friendly and I didn't say nothing weird in it or anything.

Did you ask him any questions that would have made it easy for him to reply back?  Or did you just make a series of statements that he couldn't possibly answer? He could have been too busy and not read his emails or delayed replying back because he had too much on.  Or he wanted to assess his other options (other women).  By the time he went to reply back he might of thought, it's too late replying to an email that's two weeks old.  Did you get the right email address, you didn't mispell it?

I assumed that he wasn't interested in me but when he came back this week to uni he couldn't keep his eyes off of me and was eyeing me up whilst a woman was talking to him, in fact he wasn't facing her but staring at me whilst talking to her! I looked back and he wouldn't take his eyes off of mine. During a meeting in uni we were sitting in a circle and he wasn't opposite to me but he turned his body to me and just stared at me, there was a mirror on one side of the room and he kept passing glances at me through the reflection. A friend of mine walked up to me later on and said 'He wouldn't stop staring at you!'

If he did receive the email, it could be his way of assessing how you feel about him despite the fact he didn't reply back.  Are you hacked off with him about it or have you taken it well and don't seem bothered by it.  To be honest for a guy that's slept with you early on in a relationship, I don't think his attraction with you will be anymore than just sex when he fancies it next.  Now is obviously not a suitable time with you, but if he is looking at you all the time like this, it's probably because he's lusting after your body.  Rather than lusting after having a long term relationship with you.

The thing that is bothering me is the communication, he is not communicating with me, ringing me up or emailing me but he is showing the classic signs of interest in his body language.

He has no interest in communicating with you, he only has interest in looking at your body!   The guy has had sex with you, he must surely know he's welcome to ask you out, so he would just go ahead and do it if he was bothered.  In this case though I think if he does ask you out, it's because he fancies having some sex with you.

I am going to see him next week at a social event and I am not sure what to do because I would like a relationship with him but I am not sure whether he wants me or not. I have had men muck me around for the past year and I am getting pesimistic about the whole thing now.

Find someone else, he's going to muck you about!  Find someone who is going to watch to get to know you, not want to get to know what you are like in bed.  There are men out there that don't muck women about, you just have to learn and find the ones that won't.

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