He's 22, I'm 30. He's quiet, I'm not. My whole body has gotten HOT when I see him at work. He tries to make his voice deeper when he asks how I'm doing.(ha,ha) I'm very attracted to him but I'm not sure if he is attracted to me or not. I think he's shy. I know he doesn't have a girl....he's way too tense, but sexy no doubt. He peeks at me out the corner of his eyes sometimes. We've had light conversation-he's just really hard to read. I invited him to Christmas dinner....his response? "Shoot, aint nuttin wrong wit free food?"

What language does he speak, fluent Klingon?  With him being shy and probably inexperienced he will love the fact he has finally attracted a woman's attention.  Even though it's a woman who is 8 years older than him.  He will also like the fact that you talk a lot if he is shy, it makes it a whole lot easier.    Just to top it off, you make a move by asking him out for Christmas dinner, he's going to think Christmas has come early. With him being shy and younger, there would have been very little chance of him asking you out.  I would have to say though, in general guys are not attracted to older women (more than 5 years older) for longer term relationships, there are a few exceptions. 

Instead when guys go for older women it's usually always for sex.  As an older woman you can teach him a lot about sex and a lot about relationships.  So what he sees as attractive about you, is you can teach him how to treat a woman, you can teach him some tricks in bed and you give him confidence.  So essentially you are a stepping stone for him, to move onto other women.  There are exceptions where guys do fall for older women, but in my opinion that is extremely rare.

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