a couple of weeks ago a man me and my friends had spoke to a few times was talking to my friend,i was talking to another friend at the time and just turned to say hi and carried on talking to my other friend.I could hear bits of their conversation and i herad my friend ask him about biting her bum...I had told her that i fancied him before.The next thing i know is he was biting mine and not hers,that obviously got my attention and turned round to talk to him.He touched my arm or back most of the time we were talking and i touched his arm too,at one point he took me away from my group and spoke to me on my own...Not long after that my friends told me they were leaving so i had to go,before i went he hugged me and gave me a peck on the lips then i got dragged out of the pub by my friends...There are four of us who go drinking together and we all fancied him before this happened,and have all said that it didnt mean anything.Last time a saw him he asked us to go out with him and his friends and introduced two of his mates to my friends and we couldn't take our eyes off each other.My friends saw what we were doing and tried to make me look stupid and telling him to ignore me and that i couldn't afford to go anywhere with them even though that wasnt true.After that he left the pub he did wave as he was leaving.What i want to know is does he fancy me or are my friends right and it dosn't mean anything...

Sam's Response

Men in the know, will often pick a woman in a group that they don't fancy. It is less threatening for a man to talk to someone they are not attracted to. It also usually makes all the other women present jealous and interested in him. He can then tell from whether the other women make an effort to speak to him whether they actually fancy him.

He definitely fancies you. Men don't go biting women's bums if they don't like the look of your bum. Would you bite a man's bum if you did not fancy him?

Then just to confirm it, he starts touching your arm and your back. He obviously can't wait to get his hands all over your body. Judging by how fast he was moving it is a wonder he did not give you the creeps.

Again that peck on the lips, a man would not kiss a woman, particularly on the lips unless he was seriously interested.

Yes he really was trying to get your friends out the way and pair them with his friends. So he could spend more time with you. Ultimately your friends are not going to fancy his friends though, because they are too excited about competing for him to be bothered with his friends.

Your friends are the competition. They fancy him to, and in typical girly fashion, they try and manipulate the situation to push you out of the equation, so they can get their hands on him.

It's conclusive, he fancies you!