Over the past year this guy who is a friend of a friend has been flirting with me, being very touch feely and making a lot of eye contact - all the signs described in your article ,does he fancy me' really.

At first I didn't read much into it because I thought he was married. It now turns out that he seperated from his partner over a year ago. Since then he has had a few girlfriends and is with someone now even though he still seems to be interested in me.

After the last time I saw him I sent him an email saying that I was interested in him and thought he felt the same way about me. I gave him my number and asked him call me but heard nothing. After a while I sent him another mail about something else which he replied to but has never mentioned the first message I sent him. I will be seeing him in a couple of weeks with the mutual friend. Shall I ask him whats going on or is this just his way of giving me the knockback?

Definitely do not ask him what's going on, you'll make him run for cover and avoid you! 

I've spoken to friends about it and they all reckon the same as me that he fancies me.

If your friends think he fancies you and you had the courage to tell him so, then I would guess it's fairly certain that he either does fancy you or did fancy you. There are many possibilities that could explain what's happened. 

He didn't receive the e-mail which is unlikely, but maybe you could check your sent items and make sure the e-mail left your e-mail box to make sure everything was alright at your end.

Did you make it clear that you fancied him or was it one of those female hints?  If so he might not have been conclusive about whether you fancied him.

If you can exclude both the chances above then obviously he is avoiding the subject for some reason.  I think the most likely reason for that is because he has a girlfriend and can't commit to you if he has a girlfriend but doesn't want to say yes or no.

There is a possibility that he liked you and you have asked him out too soon and this has put him off, but I find this an unlikely option because he would completely avoid you and certainly would not have replied to your other e-mail. 

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