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He said he had a call waiting and would phone me back, but he didn't PDF Print
Written by daphne45   
I met this guy, we went out for a few drinks and got on so well. The chemistry was incredible. He was asking me all the right questions and basically taking an active interest me.

Then we went out again and had another fantastic night. Then he had exams and I didn't hear from for ages.

This week I am visiting a friend who will be in the same building as the guy that I met up with. Anyway, so I decided to phone him last night.

He didn't recognise my new number - so I guess he didn't get my text saying this is my new number. He sounded quite happy that I had called and asked me questions about me and what i've been up to.

He then said that he had a call waiting and said he would call me right back. He didn't call back. It's been two days and he still hasn't been in touch.

That is not really the approach of a man who is interested in you. If a guy says he will phone back, he should phone back and he would phone back if he values you.

I'm not particularly happy - its valentines day tomorrow so maybe this has something to do with it.

It maybe that he had a date and wanted to leave you in reserve, nevertheless this is not the sort of guy you want to be with. He is obviously not devoted to the cause of going out with you.


If he gets back to me what do I say? I think he still likes me. Why do I get the feeling that he likes me? I don't want to sound difficult if he does contact me.

If he contacts you then fair enough, just be normal with him. But to me, if he does call you then it will be because he is on the rebound and doesn't have any better options. This is not good enough for you, so I don't see why you should show any interest in him anymore.

What do you think sam? I think this guy is my soul mate - do you think I should leave it?

I definitely think you should leave it. Any more interest from you is going to make you look desperate, is likely to put him in a good position to demand casual sex.

I think he is playing hard to get. He is insecure.

By what you have said I don't think he is playing hard to get or is insecure. Why would you say that you would phone someone back and not phone them back. Namely because you want to get them off the phone as soon as possible. And you don't really want to phone them back, because your not interested enough. That is my summary of the situation based on what you have said.


 
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