I am wondering if I've made it really obvious to the guy I fancy, that I fancy him. I try, but find it v difficult when with him to hide my feelings,

Why do you need to hide your feelings, if you fancy him? 

as he seriously gets under my skin, & hope I drive him nuts in return!

He trys to hold my gaze & smiles at me even more, when he notices he makes me go bashful & nervous- seems to be willing/daring me to keep looking & getting me to smile back at him, before I quickly looking away. (I NOT him, always breaks eye contact first, because eye contact gets unnerving, he just keeps on looking at me!).

The more someone look into your eyes, the more likely you are to fall in love with them.  Your brain starts deceiving you, that the last time someone looked you in the eye that much was a person you loved and who loved you (like your parents, ex-boyfriend, brother, sister etc).

I also try to sneak looks when he's around, attempting to avoid getting caught that I can't take my eyes of him/watch his mannersims. It does get both exciting & a bit embarrassing- he smiles & stares back at me more,

The fact that he smiles back shows some mutual understanding, that he is happy when he looks at you and you are happy when you look at him.

when he catches me checking him out tho, e.g. caught checking out his pert bum! -Probably finds it v flattering & ego boost, enjoying attention esp from younger woman & encouraging me/fuelling sexual tension between us! Or perhaps he's just teasing me??

Doubt he'd be teasing you, if he can't take his eyes off you, then there's a good chance he wants to get close to you and have a closer inspection. 

At first I wasn't attracted to him or didn't seem my type. Then I started to like his company & personal qualities i.e.  v intelligent, confident, well mannered, & eventually fancied physical qualities about him, contrary to generally what my friends think of him, besides I can't help my feelings anyway. When I hear his voice or walks into same room, I shake & get real clumsy, but try not to draw attention to how he makes me react.

He probably finds that both funny and entertaining and it attracts his attention more to you.

I often enjoy talking & making him laugh/entertain him, as I like to please him & make him notice me/make him think I'm interesting & facinating woman. Also I try appear joky/bold to conver up he makes me nervous & v turned on!-

Don't be too jokey though, guys can sometimes find that overpowering, and result in him having a lack of confidence to flirt with you or say anything to you because you are such a funny person you make him feel sub-standard.  So it's ok to be funny, just don't do it too often.

(flirting with a much older man in an important position), who I find extremely sexy. I know it's all part of who he is, what he does etc, that adds to my attraction for him. But the age thing or being in a v professional/responsible position, isn't that important to me. I just like him.

I sense we are similar - esp personality/temprement & share some interests in common. He is one of few people who's company really makes me feel alive & I notice time flys when around him. When not with him, I miss him, wonder what he's doing at that moment & hate it others have his time, when I want his attention also. Notice also, he does really hurt or really tugs at my heart strings, so I know 'rightly or wrongly' I can't deny I have some pretty serious feelings for him.

At the moment it seems you are both showing some signs of attraction, looking into each others eyes, joking with each other etc.  I would have thought he's starting to think it's obvious you fancy him.  And if he's interested then I think that is a good thing.  If he is in a position to make a move on you, then I think he will with time, if he is married or has a girlfriend or you are married then maybe not.

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