I have been learning yoga for eight weeks, and my Instructor seems to send me mixed messages, when we first met he was interested in what I do and encrouges me to attend yoga.  I once told him that I would not be attending his class for a while as I have some other commitments.  However I still went to his class and when he saw me he came up to me and quiet close and kept starring in to my eyes, I felt he wanted a more positive greeting so I gave him a kiss on the cheek and a hug. 

He's either gay or he likes you, he would have pulled away and become noticeably uncomfortable otherwise!  Even if he does fancy you there's a chance he might have been shocked and looked uncomfortable.  But you don't say that he was uncomfortable which to me suggests something positive.  For you to see by his body language that he wanted a more positive greeting as well, that's something instinctive that you knew, so again that really is good.

I always find he is making cheeky comments to me in class and I notice he watches me closely.  I fancy him but don't know if he does and he does seem the friendly type too. 

I'm the friendly type, it still doesn't mean I go around kissing and hugging women that I find unattractive.  I do sometimes kiss women that I'm not attracted to, but it's usually them that initiates the kiss and hug and it's usually on the basis of knowing them for a while.

Our group went out for dinner, he was talking to everyone but me we kept exchanging glances then when he got his oppurtunity he came over and talked to me individualy. I think he may know that I like him but he tends to become shy and then at times I do the same. I am four years older than him I'm not to sure he knows my age, I am single.

It all sounds positive at the moment, I think you are both still trying to suss each other out though at the moment.  He will be deciding whether he fancies you enough and once he's made that decision he will decide whether he's likely to be successful if he asks you out.

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