What are the more subtle signals a guy wants to kiss you/get more intimate, body language & verbally ?

Well a guys lips will usually swell a bit and go red and more prominent.  But usually a guy will try and get closer to you and get the occasional touch in. 

Does he invade your space more or create situations to get you used to him being more in your space, subtly touch you like it's an accident, while build up to planning to to monopolize the girl?...

Usually he does move closer into your space to see your reactions.  Once he knows your comfortable with that, then he usually tries a slight but accidental looking touch. 

Does a guy ask you things like -hypothetically, 'what you would do if *****(a guys name they know you like) asked (girl's name) what would you do if I wanted to kiss you', saying it as if they are talking to the girl as the other guy? Rather than just say ***** would you kiss ******?

He's trying to implant thoughts into your mind about him, make you imagine kissing him.  He's trying to push you more quickly towards that point than the average guy would. 

Is the guy assessing his competiton & girls' feelings for the other guy, while maybe checking a girl's reaction & the real reason he's asking  is he's hinting it's HIM who wants to really kiss the girl? But why ask to kiss a woman?

Because a guy needs to pick the right time to kiss a woman, he can't just launch a kiss with minutes of meeting her.  If she is not ready to kiss, then it will make her uncomfortable and that will make him uncomfortable and things will become awkward and it would probably be the end of the relationship. 

Is he teasing & putting things in the girls head to see how far she will go? Or trying to show he really respects & likes the girl or trying not to blow it,

When a guy asks about kisses he wants to find out information which he can use, in order not to blow it, but in order for him to make a move as fast as possible, as soon as she is comfortable with kissing.

feel a complete idiot risking being rejected without checking she's receptive to being kissed by him?

Yes.  If you go in for a kiss and she moves, then I can say the relationship will either become very uncomfortable or be over from that point onwards.

Is this the sort of thing a guy does when he's not completely sure, a girl likes him or if she wants him to touch her?

He's not sure he wants her to touch him that is true, but sometimes he will do it, to put the idea in her mind, so he can progress faster, it depends whether this guy is a professional with women or not.

Seriously, it isn't very romantic asking to kiss the girl! It kills the passion! I don't think he should've asked- just done it, when he feels the moments right between them.

I think you should wait until the moments right too.  It happens when both peoples body language are close and both people just turn there head and look at each other at the right moment.  That's when it should happen.

Incidentally, do guys fall for a girl's smile easily?

Yes, a nice smile is really nice, but it has to be coming from the right woman in the first place.  Guys like those really coy, shy and submissive smiles and looks from a woman.  It melts a guys heart and sets the butterflies rolling in his stomach.

Do guy's who may fancy you, constantly comment/compliment about a girls smile, dimples or keeps looking at her mouth, even though trying to deny they are anything other than just friends?

They want to kiss that mouth they keep looking at.  They pretend they want to be friends but their body language is leaking out the fact that they fancy them, men are not as good at disguising body language as women are.  A guy who compliments a woman's smile again, is just indicating he really does love the look of her face and can't take his eyes of it so much, that he always notices her smile.

He always teases, smiles & does staring alot with her. But he doesn't touch or invade the girls space. To me the other stuff suggests romantic not friendship behaviour?...

It is romantic, but this guy obviously doesn't feel as though the woman fancies him, so feels he needs to hide his intent.  Equally he doesn't want to invade her space too soon and scare her off.  This is usually the sign of a guy that really does adore a woman so much he daren't make any kind of moves, other than indicate it, in body language. 

Is a guy hinting he fancies you & maybe a bit jealous(though he knows you have a partner/boyfriend) saying things like the guys very lucky to have you & that you think so deeply about him?

He's lucky to have you, because he knows he can't and he wants you. 

 Or your partner/boyfriend must be a really nice man/person, (when he's been flirting with you & dropping hints he fancies you & tries ways to have further contact for several weeks, but hasn't got anywhere with you)!

Is this suggesting to a girl, the guy is genuine, maybe a bit sweet on her & jealous he'd like to take her off the other guy if he could, & be her present squeeze instead? Or he doesn't think she's nothing special, testing to see if she's easy & just wants to get her into bed, with anything he can think that might work?

He's sweet talking you, trying to persuade you that he fancies you and see your reactions to those compliments.  I'm not sure whether his intentions are to get you into bed, or to seperate you from your husband and spend the rest of your life with him, because that would show in other things he does.

Also I was just wondering, what consitutes in a man's eyes, a girl is of easy virtue?  Sleeping with a guy on first few dates maybe?....

Yep, and talking constantly about dozens of other guys she is interested in, like a different guy each day.

Would he still think she was easy, occasionally displaying a witty & filthy sense of humour?

If she constantly talked about sex, he would see her as a ladette and some easy to get into bed and try a few actions on.  If it's just the occasional comment about sex, but most of the time talking about sweet stuff and life stuff, then he wouldn't see her as easy.  Because she would be talking about sex and sweet stuff, rather than just sweet stuff. 

Or is it possible he has developed some deeper feelings that he likes her, if the girl hasn't allowed him to have sex with her yet, despite knowing each other several months, had many deep conversations & he still seems physically attracted to her?

If a woman finds she's not getting him attracted to her and only sees her as a friend, then it is good to drop something sexual into the conversation.  But you have to be careful, that sexual subject only becomes a small basis of your conversations and doesn't end up being an everyday, every minute together occasion. 

Would the girl be thought of as a tease, challenge (vendetta) or just doesn't fancy him because she's not an easy lay?...

If she constantly goes on about sex and doesn't give him any, that really is teasing.  If she mentions sex briefly, that isn't teasing, that's just bringing something up in conversation.  The dick teasers and the women that flirt constantly with loads of guys that they do not fancy and do not have any intention of having sex with.

Ok what do you reckon's the more subtle signals (verbally or physical) sign a guy is really hot for a girl, but trying to hide he has a thing for her? -Like a guy/friend admiring girls hair when in sat close in conversation with her, but looks away quick/sheepish when girl catches him looking, does the guy have a soft spot for her? 

Yep, because he knows what he's doing and becomes conscious when he sees that you see what he is doing. 

What do you consider a player to be - a guy who touches subtle & occasionally, like not rushing her too fast into physical intimacy between them. Or a guy who is too comfortable touching a girl & does it all the time?

A guy who is too comfortable touching a girl and does it all the time and tries to rush a woman towards sex, without any intention of having a long term relationship with her.  He knows when to go hot on her, when to go cold, how to get her into bed, when to move on, when he's not being successful.  But really he knows how to play the majority of women, because he's a professional at it.

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