| What is happening when a guy deliberately gets your attention but then pretends you don't exist? |
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| Written by muggle | |
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I have a few things that I've experienced generally with men's behaviour & wonder if I'm guessing right why they do these things.
I have met a few men who I got the impression of once developing a very good rapport with or get on well, but then they bring a woman out of fresh air who doesn't seem real -like its obvious he just made her up, while watching closely my reaction, if I get jealous or fancy him or not. I understand this is kind of a neg hit?...
This same bloke has also tried to get my e-mail address, suggesting to me wanting help with something. Also he has a website he wants me to visit but knows I'm not interested in logging on. I think if it's not him he's trying to get my number/contact for, then it's his mate, who I know also for sometime now & pretty sure he fancies me.
Yes, I would suspect so, he is starting to sound like a blagger from your descriptions of him. (unless trying to use friendship with these women to get more closer), & try make me doubly jealous & competing for him when he told me he gave his number to a friend of mine (like someone close to me instead of me), because that's what it felt like he was trying to do?
He does want to assert his male prowess on you, as if he's this big tough men who is going to dominant a submissive woman and command the whole room.
Trying to be dominant again and assert his power over you, make you realise you are special to him. is he just trying to get your attention or suggesting you are special in someway to him? Yes. From the way he's generally behaved around me, I would say he's definately flirting with me & wanting to take the relationship to next level, whatever it maybe?....
Then you just become more of a challenge for him. What is the matter with this bloke, is he brainless or a sadist- he keeps on coming back for more!...He has admitted to me he does use a certain strategy with girls that he claims works everytime-(my guess he uses cocky-funny technique with some kino thrown in for added flavour!)
Also, why does a fella (who knows a woman quiet well), make an obvious attempt of demanding a girls attention, like make a quick movement or noise near you, but then act like you don't exist & he doesn't look at or speak to you? Avoiding direct contact with you, so that you show some effort to get his attention and he doesn't look as though he's making too much effort with you. But instead they hang around or hesitate, stand proud close at the side of you, like they're waiting for something to happen?
Is the bloke trying to not look too desperate attracting the woman in question, but look strong, in command & make woman chase or deserve him. He wants the woman to chase him yes, then he will feel wanted and sort after, he wants her to make the first move, so that he knows she is interested in talking to him. Or does he consider he's done his bit making first approach?- Now it's the lady's turn to make the next move, if she's interested in taking things further? Guys do wait for a woman to take her turn, if he keeps hassling her, he is going to look both desperate and like a stalker. He goes in there states his interest, withdraws and waits for her to state her interest. Or is he just trying to create some sexual tension between them -you know the push-pull thing? Pulling will be on his mind! Whatever the reason for his motive, it did get my attention, unnerving me & made me more aware of him, than before.
Also, what are some signs a woman has made a man jealous? If you flirt with or mention a bloke and he completely avoids you for the next few days or he derides the bloke telling you he's a knob. And are their any sure signs a bloke likes you more than just pursing you for sex or lusting/obessive about you? If he is interested to get to know you and interested in what you do in your spare time. Rather than just passively interested in you and totally forgetting what you say or not responding to what you say properly. Want to get the opinion of other ladies who visit this web site? Try my new forum .
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