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What is happening when a guy deliberately gets your attention but then pretends you don't exist? PDF Print
Written by muggle   

I have a few things that I've experienced generally with men's behaviour & wonder if I'm guessing right why they do these things.

Do fella's bring up women in conversation to another woman (Who they may secretly fancy but to try make you jealous & make you want him more) - like going on about being crazy for the other woman & giving details of plans to take her on a date?

It could be either way, it depends what other things he does as to whether he sees you as a friend and wants advice or whether he fancies you makes you jealous.  If he says that and flirts with you as well, then he probably does fancy, if he says it and doesn't flirt he probably sees you as a female friend who can advise him on how to date a woman.

I have met a few men who I got the impression of once developing a very good rapport with or get on well, but then they bring a woman out of fresh air who doesn't seem real -like its obvious he just made her up, while watching closely my reaction, if I get jealous or fancy him or not. I understand this is kind of a neg hit?...

Negative hit, is one of the techniques players use to get their women, so you are right here, that guys can play around and use these techniques to try and get a woman.

This same bloke has also tried to get my e-mail address, suggesting to me wanting help with something. Also he has a website he wants me to visit but knows I'm not interested in logging on. I think if it's not him he's trying to get my number/contact for, then it's his mate, who I know also for sometime now & pretty sure he fancies me.

Also I've met some men who flirt heavily with me & pretty sure they find me attractive. But then brag to me very early on when getting to know me, saying nonchantly but suggestively near me, that they have lots of women friends!-like saying, you could be one too, if you play your cards right!

But in the next breath he comes out to me, saying he gave a female friend of mine his number, reckoning to help her out with some work! Is he hoping to make me jealous by trying to make me thinks he's a popular bloke- having loads of these women friends of his of whatever nature, drooling all over him

Yes, I would suspect so, he is starting to sound like a blagger from your descriptions of him. 

(unless trying to use friendship with these women to get more closer), & try make me doubly jealous & competing for him when he told me he gave his number to a friend of mine (like someone close to me instead of me), because that's what it felt like he was trying to do?

Also this bloke when he first see's me come into a room, his body language sometimes seems more perky & dominant, though trying to play it kinda cool-like & in control! But notice he gets sorta excited & nervous both together & eventually he has to come over & playfully punch me on the arm or rest his hand briefly but determindly on my shoulder, usually while saying my name.

He does want to assert his male prowess on you, as if he's this big tough men who is going to dominant a submissive woman and command the whole room.

When a bloke says a woman's name alot & appears to enjoy saying it,

Trying to be dominant again and assert his power over you, make you realise you are special to him. 

is he just trying to get your attention or suggesting you are special in someway to him?

Yes. 

From the way he's generally behaved around me, I would say he's definately flirting with me & wanting to take the relationship to next level, whatever it maybe?....

He often makes me laugh & I know I can amuse him too. Though, he seems to get off or laps it up big time, how I treat him- esp when I swear at him (sorry not very lady-like I know!), argue, be opionated & insult him or indirectly critise him in someway....

Then you just become more of a challenge for him. 

What is the matter with this bloke, is he brainless or a sadist- he keeps on coming back for more!...He has admitted to me he does use a certain strategy with girls that he claims works everytime-(my guess he uses cocky-funny technique with some kino thrown in for added flavour!)

Yes, that probably is what he does, so you read books on techniques that men use, because kino is a term used in manuals that players read, to learn a system to seduce women.

Also, why does a fella (who knows a woman quiet well), make an obvious attempt of demanding a girls attention, like make a quick movement or noise near you, but then act like you don't exist & he doesn't look at or speak to you?

Avoiding direct contact with you, so that you show some effort to get his attention and he doesn't look as though he's making too much effort with you. 

But instead they hang around or hesitate, stand proud close at the side of you, like they're waiting for something to happen?

They are waiting for you to start a conversation, because they don't know what to say.  Women are the social animals, men struggle to think of something to say.

Is the bloke trying to not look too desperate attracting the woman in question, but look strong, in command & make woman chase or deserve him.

He wants the woman to chase him yes, then he will feel wanted and sort after, he wants her to make the first move, so that he knows she is interested in talking to him. 

Or does he consider he's done his bit making first approach?- Now it's the lady's turn to make the next move, if she's interested in taking things further?

Guys do wait for a woman to take her turn, if he keeps hassling her, he is going to look both desperate and like a stalker.  He goes in there states his interest, withdraws and waits for her to state her interest. 

Or is he just trying to create some sexual tension between them -you know the push-pull thing?

Pulling will be on his mind! 

Whatever the reason for his motive, it did get my attention, unnerving me & made me more aware of him, than before.

So it worked then.

Also, what are some signs a woman has made a man jealous?

If you flirt with or mention a bloke and he completely avoids you for the next few days or he derides the bloke telling you he's a knob.

And are their any sure signs a bloke likes you more than just pursing you for sex or lusting/obessive about you?

If he is interested to get to know you and interested in what you do in your spare time.  Rather than just passively interested in you and totally forgetting what you say or not responding to what you say properly.   

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