I split up with my boyfriend of 2 years a few months ago. We still hang out with each other all the time and are great friends.

I won't go into detail , but I know without a shadow of a doubt that I am still in love with him.

The other day he told me that he could imagine growing old with me and spending the rest of his life with me. But there was no Spark on his part. Although I still feel that spark.... How can I can I make him want me again and bring back that feeling for him ?

Wait a minute he says in one breath "he could imagine growing old with you and spending the rest of his life with you", then says "there was no spark on his part".  Is he talking bollocks or what?  That is two opposite extremes.  It sounds as though he's trying to keep you sweet and keep you hooked on him, in case someone better doesn't come along, or to keep you in a happy mood with him, to stop you giving him any grief. 

There must be something I can do , I know that he is the person I am meant to be with. I just feel so comfortable with him, more than anyone else. He says he feels the same with me ,just doesn't fancy me or want me the same anymore.

Again, complete contradiction of what he is saying. You can't feel both of those things.  He's either talking bollocks or is one seriously confused guy.

There must be something I can do. Will going away and seeing him refreshed after a few months help ?

You do need to get away from him and make him realise what life is like when you are away.  If you come back and he's seriously missed you, he will jump at you.  If you come back and he doesn't jump at you, then he obviously doesn't feel that motivated to get back with you.  I suspect he's having a mental problem splitting up with you because you've spent so much time together, it would be like a bereavement if he didn't see you again.  He wants to be able to get back with you if he can't find anything better in the future and probably still has some feelings for you, so wants to keep you sweet.  He's in that confused stage where one minute he thinks he should maybe be back with you, then his sensible brain works out that you really aren't a long term relationship prospect.  I say he knows how you feel and it's up to him to make a move if he's the slightest bit motivated about getting you back.  I don't reckon at the moment he is motivated, otherwise he would do an about turn and wouldn't be saying any negative things.  Time for you to try and move on and if he realises you are moving on and really thinks you are a good catch, then he will come running, if not, then he's very unlikely to.  You can't spend all your life waiting for the possibility that he might work out, so move on and find someone else.

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