i realy dont know what to do..i have been with my bofriend for just over a year now.. i thought evrything was going well...he proposed to me i was the happiest ive been in ages. but in the back of my mind i have always had feelings for his friend...cant stop thinking of him...i realy dont know what to do...how can i tell if he likes me too?

You don't really give me much to go on.  But really if you are unsure about your current boyfriend you shouldn't really be with him.  If you are getting married, there needs to be some definite love there, meaning he is far better than anyone else you are ever going to set eyes on.  Obviously in your case you have set eyes on someone better and even worse that someone better is one of his friends.

As for working out whether he fancies you, maybe a starting point is the test on my web site.  Apart from that I can't possibly tell you, because you don't give me any information.   So only time will tell from what he says and his actions when you are around.

If you are happy with your current guy, then really you should be focusing on him.  Because you could ditch him for one of his friends only to find out that his friend only turns out to last a few months.   Equally if you are not happy enough with your current guy, then you should give his friend some careful consideration, before you make the mistake of getting married to someone, when really it's only going to last so long before you will be looking elsewhere are getting a divorce.

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