| Suggested sex without strings and he said he wasn't sure and didn't want to complicate things |
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| Written by charlie1985 | |
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I split up with my ex 5 weeks ago and last night i went round to his house cos we admitted we had too much time on out hands and were bored. So we decided to meet up however we got slightly drunk and ended up having sex. In the morning i felt no regret and no emotion in wanted to get back with him just enjoyed the fun we had without the pressure. I suggested having sex without the strings and he said he isn't sure and doesn't want to complicate things but im told him many of times my intention and that is just to have fun i don't want to get back with him. Why do you think he is acting like this and doesn't want to make the sex a regular thing? After all i've come home and have no feeling of regret or emotional attachment to get back with him.
There are several possibilities to his actions. The most likely would be that he is using reverse psychology on you. In other words suggesting that he is not interested but really he is. This tends to work a lot on women, because when they think they can't have their own way, they want their own way even more. So maybe this guy is very clued up about how a woman's mind works. If he has been going out with you for a while, then it is more than likely he will know how your mind ticks. He basically knows all he needs to do again in the future is suggest that he is bored and should we go out for a drink, and bang he gets you back into bed. The other option is his hormones were completely high and he was drunk so the reasoning part of his brain was switched off when he had sex with you. As soon as the reasoning part of his brain was switched on, when the alcohol had worn off, he realises it was maybe a mistake to have sex with you. So his hormones have reduced now he has had sex and won't spike again for at least another four days. Therefore his urge to have sex will have decreased and his need to agree to have sex with you on a regular basis has diminshed. Nevertheless if he doesn't have any better offers he will be back for more within a few weeks. Last option is, he thinks you are playing games and using a sort of reverse psychology on him. You are saying you don't want to get back with him, but in reality you do want to get back with him. You are using sex as a doorway back into his life. It maybe a case that he can't tolerate going out with you, and for that reason he doesn't want to agree to have casual sex because he knows you might want to start going out again. Again he will probably come back to you within a few weeks if he isn't getting his sex from elsewhere. |
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