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Kelly1991 on 23/01/2006
this boy keeps looking at me and staring at me. He trys
to get up close to me, his touched me on my back, his done everything
you've said thrust of the chest and feet pointing towards me. Does this
mean he finds me attractive.
Sam's Reply
From what you say these are all signs
that he finds you attractive. If it was just one of these signals
in isolation, then it maybe more doubtful. But all of those signals
together make it conclusive. Men very rarely touch women they don't
find attractive, and would you touch a man you don't find attractive?
Probably not.
Whether he fancies you for sex or
actually wants a long term relationship I don't know. Because you
do not give me any indication of how long you have known him, how old he
is and what his personality is like.
Kelly1991 Reply on 24.01.06
he's a lot older than me properly in his
late 20s.His personality is very weird he shows off alot in front of me
and trys to make me jealous in front of me, he keeps saying yo and sehr
gut in french in front of me as well and he is sometimes nasty to me or
my friends. ive known him for 17 months
Sam' Reply
Showing off is a common thing done by
men, when they fancy women. They want to stand out from the crowd
and make you notice them. They want to seem vibrant and full of
life to entertain you. He's probably heard the phrase "Treat
them mean to keep them keen". Basically it is a man's theory
that women like bad boys. By being nasty to you, he is either pretending
he is a bad boy or trying to make you think you are not that valuable, so
he can risk being nasty to you and easily find someone else.
Kelly1991 Reply on 25.01.06
why do men always go for younger girls do
they just want them for sex
Sam's Reply
It is about what men find attractive.
Men find women who look fertile attractive. Women who look fertile
have certain shaped hips and waist. Women who look fertile are
obviously young, the older a woman gets, the
more infertile she is likely to be. So it is all about
fertility. It may also be about showing off to his friends, that he
has got a super beautiful girlfriend.
But in general you can't say that men who
go for young women just want sex. Men who want to settle down
and have a family will inevitably go for young women, who are more likely
to produce healthy children.
In fact men who
just want sex with no relationship, will not be that fussy and will go
for older women as well as younger women.
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