If my boyfriend (Japanese) said he is busy now and we stopped seeing each
other for almost 1.5 months. He said he will contact me when he can find some
time, he said sometimes soon.
If you fancy someone you don't stipulate a time when
someone can and can't contact you. Maybe you might stipulate to a woman
not to contact you between 9am-5pm because you are at work. Certainly you
wouldn't stipulate not to contact someone over a period of days, weeks or
months.
Is he losing interest in me?
Sounds as though he has lost interest in you.
If he does contact you all of a sudden I would be very wary of him, especially
if he contacts you shortly before wanting to see you, because that would
demonstrate he just wants to use you for sex.
Should I contact him or wait for him to contact me?
You shouldn't contact him, you should ditch him if
you can't talk to him when you want to. There is no point in calling
yourself boyfriend and girlfriend. It is up to him to contact you if he is
really interested in you, and then you should be very cautious because it seems
funny that he doesn't want you to contact him while he is busy.