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• Married women dating men
• Why do men seem to be attracted to dumb, fake, cocky girls? - tink
• I met this guy on the dancefloor last week - barbarashaw
• He's like a hermit, he's a challenge but I like him - rosemary
• He missed the office party and sent me an excuse - dustys
• He told me I had nice knickers - lil miss1987
• He knew I fancied him and persuaded me to exchange some naked pictures - confused and frustrated
• He asked if I wanted to go for one more drink, I said no, now he hasn't contacted me - miss-me79
• Seeing a guy I fancy at the office party, what should I do? - Kazster
• Sam has designed his own Sexy Ladies Clothes Range - Sam
• He said he would meet up and then changed his mind - sparkles
• He backed off, when I was dressed up and out with a male friend - ameilia
• I've been divorced for 15 years, How can I find a man? - sindy
• I've rejected him many times, now he is trying to get me jealous - heavenly
• There's a really popular guy, but I'm shy - isabelle27
• I told him I loved him but he didn't answer - Can men make up their mind
• Having a conversation about women who only like men that have money and nice cars - Alex
• How can a shy girl make herself more approachable and what should I wear? - judy
• He said he is very slow warming to people, should I flirt with him - sally anne
• Whenever I say I like him he goes quiet - sparkles
• Whenever we talk online he is always cheerful, but we avoid each other - noooooooddy
• Fancy a guy, but his friends keep trying it on instead - enlightened
• I'm in an unhappy marriage and fancy this guy at work - Messed up gal
• Meeting my childhood sweetheart - cooki
• Told me he was depressed and couldn't have a relationship - LadyBex
• Seperated from my husband a while ago, now with his best mate but he is having guilt hits - confused!
• Boyfriend for a year but he is still close to his ex partner - Roxy
• We both have children and ex-partners, now he is backing off - tea2006
• He's friendly, we spend lots of time together, but does he fancy me? - marion74
• He used to go to school with my son and we met up in the early hours - Suzie06
• Amazing conversations online and by phone, but when we meet up he is shy - ER3
• I fancy a married guy, when he hugged me he brushed his lips on my neck - enigma1968
• We're business associates but I want to know if he is interested - bubble14
• Met a guy when on holiday in Ibiza - melissababe000
• Partner works away in Russia and wants to bring a Russian woman back with him - peggysue
• He seemed keen now he's avoiding eye contact and hardly talks to me - heavenly
• A guy keeps looking at me but I'm too shy - shanne
• We had sex, then he didnt speak of give eye contact - sheera1
• Had a baby, now he is going to the gym and meeting women and I don't feel attractive anymore - come to bed eyes
• Should I get to know this guy again - velvet247
• He's looking at dating agencies, escorts and swingers clubs - wirewaist
• He said he will contact me when he can find some time - amazing
• He keeps winking at me, what does that mean? - running gal
• Keep noticing him opposite me and looking at me, but he never talks - Stargirl11
• Is he gay? - puzzled
• I fancy a guy 19 years older, should I give it a go? - Ali-England
• How do I show interest in him without asking him out? - storegirl
• I really like him and I know he really likes me - tiny
• Every time I looked at him, he was looking at me - confused2006
• He said he has masturbated over another girl - nikki
• Keeps asking me out as a friend but does he fancy me - puzzled
• Brought up to believe the man should make the first move - Golden Girl
• He's giving me mixed messages - Angel1983
• A guy at work keeps grabbing my face and staring into my eyes - bunnytail
• He said I'm not his type, but I'm a good looking girl - candygirl
• He's a bit short and has too many financial commitments - Natasha1977
• Pizza shop was closed, but he let me in and gave me a free lunch - mystery woman
• In a game of truth or dare I said I fancied him - foxy lady
• I didn't fancy my ex-boyfriends friend at first, but now my feelings for him are so intense - krissy
• How long can people continue to have casual sex for? - Ali-England
• Only realised how much I fancied him when we broke up - shoegallover
• Short skirt or jeans, boots or high heels, black or skin colour tights - puzzled
• He keeps staring at me - red
• He's got a girlfriend - missy
• Turned him down twice now he's going out with another woman - willow
• Known each other ages, are we just good friends? - unigirl19
• Little appetite for sex and he keeps watching porn - flowerxxx
• Sends me texts saying he loves me and wants to spend the rest of his life with me - leonie
• Fancy my gym instructor - chocolate cake
• He phoned me up and came round three nights in december - puzzled
• He doesnt pay me attention anymore - loopy lou
• Should I just try to talk to him and act confident - smash
• He brought the topic of sex into the conversation - mags54321
• Do men like being asked out by women? - PJ
• Think he had something else to say but chickened out - sweetwoman1983
• I want him to move in with me - catrick
• I am doing all the chasing - cupid
• Guys who go clubbing are not relationship material? - puzzled
• Me and my ex are back together - delicious
• Nice body, nice personality but can't attract men - boohoo98
• He can't commit - Madaline
• Doesnt show any interest in my personal life - Becki-Boo
• He's got status so it would be embarrassing asking him out - girlywoo
• Is this normal behaviour for a confident guy - emma23
• Sent him a Valentines but did not sign it - sarah
• Still in love with his ex - charlottew
• He's looking at other women, I feel insecure - auburnlady
• Had a crush on a guy at work for over a year - toad
• Can't get over my ex-boyfriend - delicious
• Performed oral sex on him, now he is all nervous - sugar1983
• Winks, jokes and weird conversations - totally confused girl
• I'm studying abroad but he doesn't call me - c
• Tall, fit, rich, nice car, good job - puzzled
• real alpha male, married and having an affair - londonerF
• Very experienced in bed and expects me to be too - gems
• Quick glances and smiles - sexy
• Wake up the next morning and feel regret before I even open my eyes - welshgem
• Is it just office flirting or something more - Joanne34
• He thinks I'm a gorgeous girl - delicious
• First time I've ever slept with a guy on the first date - dawnimo
• Always asking to see my boobs - blondegirl1985
• Going through a rocky patch and I ended up cheating on him - delicious
• Told him I used to watch porn with my ex partner - blondie
• He is a very shy person but so amazingly manly - girly 84
• Admitted he was still in love with his ex - lostbylove
• Could this be mirroring? - susie
• Does he find me attractive? - Kelly1991
• Is this what happens to single men who cope well on their own - jillian42
• Attracted to a guy from my local pub - hoping he likes her
• How would a woman show she is interested in a guy without coming on too strong. - RedHead
• Some women have sent him vulgar text messages suggesting sex - RedHead
• He looks at me a lot - star
• Can't give you want you want, so we should split. - Mels
• Stayed until late afternoon watching DVDs. - Lara
• Told him I never fancied asian men. - dippy girl
• Met a divorced man with 2 children. - elocks
• Never really liked him until a few weeks ago. - becky88
• Discovered recently that he is married. - Pam
• His ex-girlfriend has come back on the scene. - smiler36
• Speaking on MSN, does he fancy me? - confused
• Gave him the cold shoulder in an attempt to keep him keen. - confused
• I think a guy at work fancies me. - michie
• Not interested in me in a romantic way. - May
• Good friends who happen to have sex. - fedup
• My partner's friend. - ali t
• Dating my boyfriend for 4 years, but crazily attracted to a guy at the gym. - Fit 'N' Frustrated
• Said I would go straight downstairs rather than upstairs. - reddevil
• We've known each other for years, but I've been in two relationships since then. - erosok
• He phoned me up saying he wasn't looking for a relationship. - Daneille85
• He was biting my bum. - lovelylisa
• Guy at the gym is a physiotherapist and offered me some treatment. - Meg33
• I always have to text him first. - Star12345
• Gave me a free drink and touched my arm. - jenny21
• He is giving me mixed messages. - Sharon
• Got a bit weird after he realised I liked him - futileefforts

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