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auburnlady on 21/02/2006
i have been with this guy for 8 months he
has already asked me to marry him, however, i find him looking at other
women whilst we are out, this has never bothered me with any of my ex's
but it make me feel insecure and that maybe im not good enough for him,
should i try to ignore it? i have mentioned it once, but i dont want to
seem like some insecure woman.
Sam's reply
Most women would only
dream of a man asking to marry them.
As for looking at other
women, I don't think it is possible for any man not to look at other
women. For a start they are everywhere, so the only way of stopping
him is poking him in the eyes and blinding him. Men that have been
married for years stare at women and even wolf whistle at women.
Most of the time they are staring at women they don't have a chance with
anyway.
If Brad Pitt (or someone
you really liked) walked past you wouldn't you be checking him out.
If you were not good
enough for him, why has he asked you to marry him? Why be insecure,
you have got this man and as long as you treat him right, you will have
this man as long as you want him.
After almost thirty years
of marriage my mother still says to my father, when he is driving
"Eyes on the road, not on the girls". Another common
phrase women use when a bloke is staring at another woman "In your
dreams". There is no need to be insecure, all men do it, it doesn't
necessarily mean they are going to get that woman. I pass hundreds
of women, I'm attracted to every day, I don't end up getting with anyone
of these hundreds of women. Wake up to reality, it's you he is
with.
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