Sam's reply

Most women would only dream of a man asking to marry them.

As for looking at other women, I don't think it is possible for any man not to look at other women.  For a start they are everywhere, so the only way of stopping him is poking him in the eyes and blinding him.  Men that have been married for years stare at women and even wolf whistle at women.  Most of the time they are staring at women they don't have a chance with anyway. 

If Brad Pitt (or someone you really liked) walked past you wouldn't you be checking him out.

If you were not good enough for him, why has he asked you to marry him?  Why be insecure, you have got this man and as long as you treat him right, you will have this man as long as you want him.

After almost thirty years of marriage my mother still says to my father, when he is driving "Eyes on the road, not on the girls".  Another common phrase women use when a bloke is staring at another woman "In your dreams". There is no need to be insecure, all men do it, it doesn't necessarily mean they are going to get that woman.  I pass hundreds of women, I'm attracted to every day, I don't end up getting with anyone of these hundreds of women.  Wake up to reality, it's you he is with.

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