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Why do men seem to be attracted
to dumb, fake, cocky girls? By tink
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He's like a hermit, he's a
challenge but I like him By rosemary
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He told me I had nice
knickers By lil miss1987
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He asked if I wanted to go
for one more drink, I said no, now he hasn't contacted me By miss-me79
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Sam has designed his own Sexy
Ladies Clothes Range By Sam
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He backed off, when I was
dressed up and out with a male friend By ameilia
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I've rejected him many
times, now he is trying to get me jealous By heavenly
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I told
him I loved him but he didn't answer By Can men make up
their mind
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How can a shy girl make herself
more approachable and what should I wear? By judy
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Whenever I say I like him
he goes quiet By sparkles
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Fancy a guy, but his
friends keep trying it on instead By enlightened
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Meeting my childhood
sweetheart By cooki
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Seperated from my husband
a while ago, now with his best mate but he is having guilt hits By confused!
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We both have children and
ex-partners, now he is backing off By tea2006
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He used to go to school with
my son and we met up in the early hours By Suzie06
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I fancy a married guy,
when he hugged me he brushed his lips on my neck By enigma1968
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He seemed keen now he's
avoiding eye contact and hardly talks to me By heavenly
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We had sex, then he didnt
speak of give eye contact By sheera1
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Should I get to know this
guy again By velvet247
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He said he will contact me
when he can find some time By amazing
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Keep noticing him opposite
me and looking at me, but he never talks By Stargirl11
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I fancy a guy 19 years
older, should I give it a go? By Ali-England
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I really like him and I know he
really likes me By tiny
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He said he has masturbated over
another girl By nikki
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Brought up to believe the
man should make the first move By Golden Girl
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A guy at work keeps
grabbing my face and staring into my eyes By bunnytail
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He's a bit short and has
too many financial commitments By Natasha1977
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In a game of truth or dare
I said I fancied him By foxy lady
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How long can people
continue to have casual sex for? By Ali-England
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Short skirt or jeans, boots
or high heels, black or skin colour tights By puzzled
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Sex or Friendship By norahs
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Turned him down twice now he's
going out with another woman By willow
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Little appetite for sex and
he keeps watching porn By flowerxxx
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Fancy my gym
instructor By chocolate cake
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He doesnt pay me attention
anymore By loopy lou
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He brought the topic of sex
into the conversation By mags54321
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Think he had something
else to say but chickened out By sweetwoman1983
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I am doing all the chasing By cupid
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Me and my ex are back
together By delicious
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He can't commit By Madaline
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He's got status so it would
be embarrassing asking him out By girlywoo
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Sent him a Valentines but did
not sign it By sarah
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He's looking at other
women, I feel insecure By auburnlady
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Can't get over my
ex-boyfriend By delicious
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Winks, jokes
and weird conversations By totally confused girl
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Tall, fit, rich, nice car,
good job By puzzled
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Very experienced in bed and
expects me to be too By gems
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Wake up the next morning and
feel regret before I even open my eyes By welshgem
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He thinks I'm a gorgeous
girl By delicious
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Always asking to see
my boobs By blondegirl1985
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Told him I used to watch porn
with my ex partner By blondie
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Admitted he was still in
love with his ex By lostbylove
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Does he find me attractive? By Kelly1991
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Attracted to a
guy from my local pub By hoping he likes her
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Some women have sent him
vulgar text messages suggesting sex By RedHead
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Can't give you want you want, so
we should split. By Mels
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Told him I never fancied
asian men. By dippy girl
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Never really liked him until a
few weeks ago. By becky88
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His ex-girlfriend has come
back on the scene. By smiler36
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Gave him the cold shoulder
in an attempt to keep him keen. By confused
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Not interested in me in a
romantic way. By May
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My partner's friend. By ali
t
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Said I would go straight
downstairs rather than upstairs. By reddevil
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He phoned me up saying he
wasn't looking for a relationship. By Daneille85
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Guy at the gym is a
physiotherapist and offered me some treatment. By Meg33
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Gave me a free drink and
touched my arm. By jenny21
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Got a bit weird after
he realised I liked him By futileefforts
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becky88 on 18/10/2005
hi, theres a guy that i have known for quite a while, but never
really liked him till a few weeks ago. he's a notorious flirt but he
seems always to want to be where i am, like i walk past where he is, and
he'll go out of his way (it seems) to talk, but then he wont speak to me,
and then will again. He also remembers nearly everything i have said.
even if its pointless. he touches me alot and whenever we've had a bit to
drink we always end up being together all the time, but never doing
anything. i really want to be with him but i dont know how he feels or
how to go about it...HELP!!!???
Sam's Response
Hi Becky
You say "but then he wont speak to me, and then will again".
This is a standard thing that men do, because men find that if they act
too eager women go off them. So they go hot and cold all the time to make
sure the woman fall for them.
You say "He also remembers nearly everything i have said", he
is obviously very interested in what you say and hence must be very
attracted to you if he takes the time to remember even minor details.
You say "he touches me alot". Again men don't touch women they
don't find attractive.
You say "i really want to be with him, but i dont know how he feels
or how to go about it" I am not sure what circumstances you meet him
in (e.g. work, supermarket). But it sounds as though, you go out for a
drink with him. So there are several ways to go about it
- Pretend you are a bit drunk (but don't get drunk because you won't
remember anything). That way you can do all sorts like lean on him as you
are sitting down or walking down the street. But if you touch him too
much, he might think it is the green light for sex. If he rejects you,
you can just apologise for being a bit tipsy.
- Throw some hints that you would like to go to a concert or the cinema.
Not obvious hints, just bring it into the conversation "I am
thinking about going to the concert, but none of my friends are available
to go".
I can't really guarantee that the above things will work, because it
depends on the situation you are in and depends on your execution at the
time, as well as many other factors.
You just have to make yourself approachable without looking desperate and
hopefully he will then fall for you.
Click
here to Ask Sam some questions
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I met this guy on
the dancefloor last week By barbarashaw
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He missed the office
party and sent me an excuse By dustys
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He knew
I fancied him and persuaded me to exchange some naked pictures By confused
and frustrated
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Seeing a guy I fancy at
the office party, what should I do? By Kazster
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He said he would meet
up and then changed his mind By sparkles
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I've been divorced for 15
years, How can I find a man? By sindy
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There's a really
popular guy, but I'm shy By isabelle27
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Having a conversation about
women who only like men that have money and nice cars By Alex
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He said he is very
slow warming to people, should I flirt with him By sally
anne
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Whenever we talk
online he is always cheerful, but we avoid each other By noooooooddy
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I'm in an unhappy
marriage and fancy this guy at work By Messed up
gal
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Told me he was depressed
and couldn't have a relationship By LadyBex
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Boyfriend for a year but he
is still close to his ex partner By Roxy
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He's friendly, we spend
lots of time together, but does he fancy me? By marion74
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Amazing conversations online
and by phone, but when we meet up he is shy By ER3
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We're business
associates but I want to know if he is interested By bubble14
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Partner works away in
Russia and wants to bring a Russian woman back with him By peggysue
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A guy keeps looking at me
but I'm too shy By shanne
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Had a baby, now
he is going to the gym and meeting women and I don't feel attractive
anymore By come to bed eyes
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He's looking at dating
agencies, escorts and swingers clubs By wirewaist
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He keeps winking at
me, what does that mean? By running gal
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Is he gay? By puzzled
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How do I show interest
in him without asking him out? By storegirl
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Every time I looked
at him, he was looking at me By confused2006
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Keeps asking me out as a
friend but does he fancy me By puzzled
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He's giving me mixed
messages By Angel1983
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He said I'm not his
type, but I'm a good looking girl By candygirl
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Pizza shop was
closed, but he let me in and gave me a free lunch By mystery
woman
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I didn't fancy my
ex-boyfriends friend at first, but now my feelings for him are so
intense By krissy
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Only realised how
much I fancied him when we broke up By shoegallover
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He keeps staring at me By red
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He's got a girlfriend By missy
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Known each other ages,
are we just good friends? By unigirl19
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Sends me texts saying he
loves me and wants to spend the rest of his life with me By leonie
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He phoned me up and came
round three nights in december By puzzled
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Should I just try to talk
to him and act confident By smash
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Do men like being asked out by
women? By PJ
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I want him to move in
with me By catrick
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Guys who go clubbing are
not relationship material? By puzzled
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Nice body, nice
personality but can't attract men By boohoo98
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Doesnt show any
interest in my personal life By Becki-Boo
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Is this normal behaviour
for a confident guy By emma23
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Still in love with his
ex By charlottew
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Had a crush on a guy at work
for over a year By toad
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Performed oral sex on
him, now he is all nervous By sugar1983
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I'm studying abroad but he
doesn't call me By c
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real alpha male,
married and having an affair By londonerF
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Quick glances and smiles By sexy
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Is it just office
flirting or something more By Joanne34
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First time I've ever
slept with a guy on the first date By dawnimo
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Going through a rocky
patch and I ended up cheating on him By delicious
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He is a very shy person
but so amazingly manly By girly 84
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Could this be mirroring? By susie
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Is this what happens to
single men who cope well on their own By jillian42
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How would a woman show
she is interested in a guy without coming on too strong. By RedHead
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He looks at me a lot By star
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Stayed until late afternoon
watching DVDs. By Lara
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Met a divorced man with 2
children. By elocks
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Discovered recently that he is
married. By Pam
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Speaking on MSN, does he
fancy me? By confused
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I think a guy at work
fancies me. By michie
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Good friends who happen to
have sex. By fedup
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Dating my
boyfriend for 4 years, but crazily attracted to a guy at the gym. By Fit
'N' Frustrated
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We've known each other for
years, but I've been in two relationships since then. By erosok
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He was biting my bum. By lovelylisa
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I always have to text
him first. By Star12345
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He is giving me mixed
messages. By Sharon
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