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c on 19.02.06
I have been dating my boyfriend for 9 years now. I am studying abroad and he
is back home. He does not call often as the money there is a bit low compared to
where I am situated. Even if it is true i wanted him to call a few time a week
at least 3 times or txt. I end up calling him everyday and some times the things
I want him to do for me he is not doing, I end up crying and depressed and
thinking why I am with him. But apart from that when we r together he treats me
well and like a princess. I wanted to seduce him in a way where he will feel
what i am going through. I was some tips and advice, please help.
Sam's reply
Whilst I wouldn't expect a man to do everything you ask, it seems he is
doing less than is satisfactory for you. Depending on how realistic your
requests are, I think he should be doing most things you ask.
Men are not particularly good with communication, so he's not going to
think of communicating with you as much as you want. Apart from the early
stages of a relationship, it is usually the women that initiate a conversation,
a bloke will then decide whether he wants to continue the conversation.
You say he treats you like a princess, when you are with him. Well this is
what you should remember. It is virtually impossible for him to treat you
like a princess when you are so far away. Certainly communicating by text,
has absolutely no emotion whatsoever. Communicating long distance is very
difficult for you both to project emotions, you can't see someone's body
language, facial expressions or actions.
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