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c on 19/02/2006
I have been dating my boyfriend for 9
years now. I am studying abroad and he is back home. He does not call
often as the money there is a bit low compared to where I am situated.
Even if it is true i wanted him to call a few time a week at least 3
times or txt. I end up calling him everyday and some times the things I
want him to do for me he is not doing, I end up crying and depressed and
thinking why I am with him. But apart from that when we r together he
treats me well and like a princess. I wanted to seduce him in a way where
he will feel what i am going through. I was some tips and advice, please
help.
Sam's reply
Whilst I wouldn't expect
a man to do everything you ask, it seems he is doing less than is
satisfactory for you. Depending on how realistic your requests are,
I think he should be doing most things you ask.
Men are not particularly
good with communication, so he's not going to think of communicating with
you as much as you want. Apart from the early stages of a
relationship, it is usually the women that initiate a conversation, a
bloke will then decide whether he wants to continue the conversation.
You say he treats you
like a princess, when you are with him. Well this is what you should
remember. It is virtually impossible for him to treat you like a
princess when you are so far away. Certainly communicating by text,
has absolutely no emotion whatsoever. Communicating long distance is very
difficult for you both to project emotions, you can't see someone's body
language, facial expressions or actions.
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