confused 01.10.2005
Hiya,
Wonder if you can help me...
Met this guy a few weeks ago and we spent a few days together with others. Since
going back to living at opposite ends of the country from each other, we've
spent a long time speaking to each other on MSN. We've discussed hobbies, hopes,
fears, dreams, everyday stuff, personal stuff etc. Some days we can speak for
hours, others very little time, but we speak most days. The conversations are
initiated about half and half between us.
Could he like me? Would a guy spend so long talking to someone on MSN unless he
fancied them or is he just being friendly or is he plain bored? I'm pretty
confused!
Sam's Response
You say:
"Would a guy spend so long talking to someone on MSN unless he fancied them or
is he just being friendly or is he plain bored?"
No he wouldn't spend so long talking to you on MSN if he didn't find you
interesting either as a friend or potential girlfriend. More likely a potential
girlfriend because men are very unlikely to put any effort into talking to
someone on a regular basis at the opposite end of the country if he did not see
some benefit in it.
Moreover if he was bored, he would not want to bore himself even further by
communicating with someone he did not find interesting. Plus you indicate he has
communicated with you several times, he is not going to come back for more, if
you are boring him.
Could he like me? It is possible, but as you are communicating together remotely
it is hard to say without actually meeting up with him. He certainly sees some
benefit in continuing to communicate with you.
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