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confused on 01/10/2005
Hiya,
Wonder if you can help me...
Met this guy a few weeks ago and we spent a few days together
with others. Since going back to living at opposite ends of the country
from each other, we've spent a long time speaking to each other on MSN.
We've discussed hobbies, hopes, fears, dreams, everyday stuff, personal
stuff etc. Some days we can speak for hours, others very little time, but
we speak most days. The conversations are initiated about half and half
between us.
Could he like me? Would a guy spend so long talking to someone on
MSN unless he fancied them or is he just being friendly or is he plain
bored? I'm pretty confused!
Sam's Response
You say:
"Would a guy spend so long talking to someone on MSN unless he
fancied them or is he just being friendly or is he plain bored?"
No he wouldn't spend so long talking to you on MSN if he didn't find you
interesting either as a friend or potential girlfriend. More likely a
potential girlfriend because men are very unlikely to put any effort into
talking to someone on a regular basis at the opposite end of the country
if he did not see some benefit in it.
Moreover if he was bored, he would not want to bore himself even further
by communicating with someone he did not find interesting. Plus you
indicate he has communicated with you several times, he is not going to
come back for more, if you are boring him.
Could he like me? It is possible, but as you are communicating together
remotely it is hard to say without actually meeting up with him. He
certainly sees some benefit in continuing to communicate with you.
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