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cooki on 04/10/2006
I'm meeting my childhood sweetheart
in two days, we decided to start dating again. First time I've seen him
in 10 years. How to seduce him completely, make him want more?
Try to switch off your
imagination. He is probably nothing like he was 10 years ago.
So when you come to meet him you will have imagined all these brilliant
things, and will be severely disappointed when he doesn't fulfil these
dreams. It is best to wait until the date actually happens
and take him as he comes, and then do the dreaming.
Don't worship him like fan,
because the last thing a guys going to find attractive is somebody that
is so excited, he can't get a decent conversation from you. Keep
your feet on the ground. It maybe a great occasion to meet up with
your childhood sweetheart but don't demonstrate to him, that you are
completely desperate for him.
Though, you also should not be the
complete opposite and be completely defensive or act as though you don't
fancy him. You've got to make sure you have some good conversation
and have a good time. Then after the date make it clear you enjoyed
the date and wouldn't mind seeing him again sometime.
Don't have sex. By having
sex with him, you will be switching off his brain to the possibility
of a long term relationship potential. His brain will be
purely switched to having sex with you again and again. He will
just switch off reading your personality and be constantly thinking about
sex.
You've got to make him wait for
sex, if he tries to push you into having sex, then he probably doesn't
value a long term relationship potential with you.
Treat it like a normal first
date. You might like him, you might not. He has got to prove
himself to you.
If you go for a meal and you feel
as though he hasn't enjoyed himself yet, try to extend the date by
suggesting you go somewhere else where you can have fun: bowling, ice
rink, amusement arcade wherever. Then when you know he has enjoyed
himself, leave it there, for that day. But send him a text
afterwards to re-assure him you enjoyed yourself and would like to see
him again sometime (If he doesn't send you one first).
Just relax, but also help him
to relax. He will be seriously nervous meeting up with his
childhood sweetheart.
And Good Luck!
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