it's me again, talking about the ex situation. Me and the ex have been back in contact over the last week after a year of being apart. We have been texting each other flirty and dirty text messages and have arranged to meet up for some passion.

You mean, sex without commitment, can there be passion in that?  It is basically just a series of sex sessions.

I know that my ex is still emotionally attached to me as I am with him, it seems that we both still have very strong feelings for one another.

Yes, he may still have feelings for you and you may still have feelings for him, it is very likely.  But he is an ex for a reason.  Sooner or later you are going to go back to the bad times you had when you split up.  If it doesn't work the first time, it is hardly likely to work, however many other times you try.

The problem that we have got he's got a girlfriend that was there for him when we split up to help him get over all his heart ache, but i have come back on the scene and he is willing to meet up with me for drives and sex.

Basically sex, but the drives are there to make it seem as though there is a little bit more to it than that.

I really want to meet up with him and carry on with our fun and flings, but do you think im doing the right thing.

No, I think you are going round in circles and coming back to a relationship that doesn't work.  Eventually it is going to make you dizzy.  Maybe not initially but when it starts to go pear-shaped again.

He also asked me if i still loved him like i used to and he also thinks that im winding him up and leading him on by texting him, but the truth is im not i do genuinely want to give it another go i want to take it very slowly and have lots of fun with him. he also!

Yes, his confused brain might be saying he wants to give it another go.  But in reality he will be apprehensive.  His brain will be telling him one moment don't get back with her, don't do that to yourself, then at other points he will be saying I fancy getting back with her, and certainly fancy having sex.

told me that he will never love anyone like he used to love me and that's why he jumps when i call, usually he would never cheat he totally disagrees with it because of what i did to him, but he said that only i can do this to him because of how he feels for me.

Well, that's what he says, he is bound to want to keep you sweet, if he knows he can get some sex out of you.  It is a good situation for him, because he's got his girlfriend to give him sex and he's got you as a bit on the side.  And he has got you because you have done this in the past to him.  I don't doubt that he still has some feelings for you, but he is also in a brilliant position, because he is biting at two cherrys.

He may well give up his current girlfriend for you, but I very much doubt your relationship will last more than a few years.  Those few years would be a waste of time, because in that time you could have been going out with someone who you could potentially spend the rest of your life with.