have been texting this guy for a month and a half, I really, really fancy him, I met him in a nightclub we had a kiss and from that moment on he has been texting me, almost every night. I have been up his house once and we stayed in and watched a video.
The problem I got is that he is friends with my ex, this guy has asked me out for a drink once but I had to decline as I was out with the girls but since that all he has done is text me. He texts me sexual things to get himself turned on and also text me asking for pictures of each other, which I enjoy but I do got bored of it.
I don't want anything serious with this guy as I have only just come out of a long term relationship, but I just don't want to be texting him all the time.
Then you don't fancy him that much if you don't want anything serious with him.
The other day I told him that I was getting a bit fed up with all the fun texting, an maybe we should leave it, I know that he is also feeling a bit awkward about my ex situation aswell, even though my ex has moved on and Im ready to move on. This guy text me back saying that he agrees with me, he thinks Im gorgeous girl and would of love to have got to know me better but he does feel awkward.
Trying to win you over again by agreeing with you, but paying you a compliment at the same time.
Couple of days later this guy texts me asking me how I was and what have I been up to, I was slightly confused as we both agreed to leave it.
Thinks he has blown it, so gives you time to get over what he said in the last message. Now he is trying to win you over again! It's the follow on because he wasn't successful in winning you back in the last message.
Im all confused, I really like this guy and would like to know what's going through his mind about me. What do you think I should do?
He definitely likes you, but whether he has the long term staying power, or whether he is just changing his mind all the time, I don't know.
No, wait a minute, you said you didn't want anything serious with this guy. This maybe your mind telling you, you don't find him attractive enough to want to go out with him long term. You have changed your mind because he has pulled a few of your strings and tried to win you back again.
What I say, is give the relationship a go, but be wary that it hasn't worked out before. If it doesn't work out second time, make a quick exit from the relationship and never go back. Even if he tries to pull your strings again.
