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delicious on 08/03/2006
it's me again, talking about the ex
situation. Me and the ex have been back in contact over the last week
after a year of being apart. We have been texting each other flirty and
dirty text messages and have arranged to meet up for some passion.
You mean, sex without commitment, can
there be passion in that? It is basically just a series of sex
sessions.
I know that my ex is still emotionally
attached to me as I am with him, it seems that we both still have very
strong feelings for one another.
Yes, he may still have feelings for you
and you may still have feelings for him, it is very likely. But he
is an ex for a reason. Sooner or later you are going to go back to
the bad times you had when you split up. If it doesn't work the
first time, it is hardly likely to work, however many other times you
try.
The problem that we have got he's got a
girlfriend that was there for him when we split up to help him get over
all his heart ache, but i have come back on the scene and he is willing
to meet up with me for drives and sex.
Basically sex, but the drives are there to
make it seem as though there is a little bit more to it than that.
I really want to meet up with him and
carry on with our fun and flings, but do you think im doing the right
thing.
No, I think you are going round in circles
and coming back to a relationship that doesn't work. Eventually it
is going to make you dizzy. Maybe not initially but when it starts
to go pear-shaped again.
He also asked me if i still loved him
like i used to and he also thinks that im winding him up and leading him
on by texting him, but the truth is im not i do genuinely want to give it
another go i want to take it very slowly and have lots of fun with him.
he also!
Yes, his confused brain might be saying he
wants to give it another go. But in reality he will be
apprehensive. His brain will be telling him one moment don't get
back with her, don't do that to yourself, then at other points he will be
saying I fancy getting back with her, and certainly fancy having sex.
told me that he will never love anyone
like he used to love me and that's why he jumps when i call, usually he
would never cheat he totally disagrees with it because of what i did to
him, but he said that only i can do this to him because of how he feels
for me.
Well, that's what he says, he is bound to
want to keep you sweet, if he knows he can get some sex out of you.
It is a good situation for him, because he's got his girlfriend to give
him sex and he's got you as a bit on the side. And he has got you
because you have done this in the past to him. I don't doubt that
he still has some feelings for you, but he is also in a brilliant
position, because he is biting at two cherrys.
He may well give up his current girlfriend
for you, but I very much doubt your relationship will last more than a
few years. Those few years would be a waste of time, because in
that time you could have been going out with someone who you could
potentially spend the rest of your life with.
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