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dustys on 01/12/2006
I emailed you recently to let you
know of a party my company was holding and that there was a client of
mine going.
When I read that sentence, I
thought you had invited me and you were just e-mailing me to tell me off,
lol.
Anyway that event was last night and
i received an email from him saying that he couldn't make it.
The fact that he e-mailed you to
tell you, meant that it mattered to him, that he gave you an
explanation. What he could have done, was not turn up and given you
an excuse, if you raised the issue with him.
he sent me an explanation of how he
was going away on Friday but his plans had changed and he had to leave on
Thursday night, as his friend was driving to their weekend
location.
This weekend away could
have been very important to his life and could have been pre-arranged for
a long time. It might have been a once in a lifetime event that if
missed wouldn't happen again. Whereas meeting up with you can wait,
he can do that at any point, whether at a party or on a date. Those
are the options in a blokes mind.
He said he had planned to go and
have a good drink up. he said he was really gutted and wanted a catch up
with me.
He wouldn't say that, if he didn't
mean it.
I replied back with "Ah shame,
tell your friend he's depriving you of a kiss under the miseltoe"!
Good answer, let him know
what he is missing.
To which he replied "With an
offer like that i'll cancel my trip".
That reply would not have come to
his mind, if he didn't want to be there with you.
i have another party in 2 weeks
which he is coming to.
So, fair enough, this will be the
deciding factor about whether he fancies you. Will he make his
excuses and miss the night again, which would be too much of a
coincidence, or will he turn up and you both have a great night
together. He now knows where he stands with you, he should at least
expect a kiss under the mistletoe. So if the thought of that
frightens him, he will miss this party, if the thought of that turns him
on, he definitely won't miss it.
Now does he sound interested from
this exchange of emails? Or is he just making an excuse?
At this point I would say he is
still interested. Why would he bother contacting you, if he wasn't
interested? Why would he miss an office party just because one person
there fancies him? Why
would his responses to you all be positive?
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