There is this guy that i know to speak to i wouldn't say we were friends but more than acquaintances.
I never noticed him at first it was him that spoke to me first, never even fancied him to begin with lets say he grew on me. He used to tease me in the beginning, flirting too, casually touching me eye contact. A fair bit of winking as well.
You don't casually touch women you don't find attractive and you don't give women eye contact unless they are long term friends and acquaintances.
The level of flirting has increased over time.
So what's the problem you ask?
This guy happens to be married, didn't know at first well i didn't know him really at first.
Not really a good idea to get involved with this guy. Getting involved with married guys drags you into his relationship problems. He may just end up using you for sex and a bit of fun, then go wandering back to his wife. If he interested in having a long term relationship with you, he then has to go through all that hassle of divorce and the wife trying to get her claws on you. So always try and find a man who is single or separated is my recommendation.
You've also got to ask if you do end up having a long term relationship, how long is it going to last, before another woman comes along and he is off with her. He's had an affair with you while being married, so what's stopping him from doing the dirty on you too. So it's often best not going there.
A few things concern me, i've been telling myself not to get involved with him as he has a wife. I'm not that kind of girl, I can't really avoid him as we live in the same community and work near each other.
Anyway he has/does continue to flirt with me at times i try not respond by flirting just being my friendly self. But he still winks at me. It occurred to me yesterday that whenever he's around i feel sick. sometimes i have been but he doesn't know i disappear to the ladies to sort myself out.
There is feeling sick through disgust or because you are ill and then there's feeling sick because you are nervous.
A while back (though i've seen him a few times since this incident our interactions haven't been long, we've both been busy of late) I had to pop into where he worked he looked at me seemed to stop for a minute as though he was thinking about something came over to me and gave me a big hug, not a normal hug friends would give me felt his hands over my lower back and lips against my neck. He never did anything like that before.
That definitely suggests he wants to get intimate with you. This guy is ultra confident. The fact that he is married, suggests he knows what he is doing with women, he's no amateur. He knows that rubbing his hands down your lower back and even more seductive lips on your neck is going to turn you on. The guy is demonstrating his dominance over women, and women tend to like dominant men. He can't wait to get you into bed, and take the intimate touching even further.
Over the time i have known him he has made comments if he had seen me about, had i been avoiding him (if i hadn't gone into his workplace) Telling me if i hadn't gone in that day, if i bumped into him lately.
Just male jokes/humour or an attempt to make a conversation, whilst also getting out of you what you think about him. Are you really avoiding him? It's a difficult question for you to answer without giving away whether you want to see him or not.
I'm certain he knows i like him so why hug me like that or am i being naive here.
By now, he will know you like him. Any woman that lets a bloke hug them, put his arms on their lower back and then the ultimate giveaway of letting him kiss you on his neck. Most women would have flinched or pushed a bloke away or looked uncomfortable, if they weren't happy with this.
