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enigma1968 on 03/09/2006
There is this guy that i know to speak to
i wouldn't say we were friends but more than acquaintances.
I never noticed him at first it was him
that spoke to me first, never even fancied him to begin with lets say he
grew on me. He used to tease me in the beginning, flirting too, casually
touching me eye contact. A fair bit of winking as well.
You don't casually touch women you don't
find attractive and you don't give women eye contact unless they are long
term friends and acquaintances.
The level of flirting has increased over
time.
So what's the problem you ask?
This guy happens to be married, didn't
know at first well i didn't know him really at first.
Not really a good idea to get involved
with this guy. Getting involved with married guys drags you into his
relationship problems. He may just end up using you for sex and a bit of
fun, then go wandering back to his wife. If he interested in having
a long term relationship with you, he then has to go through all that
hassle of divorce and the wife trying to get her claws on you. So
always try and find a man who is single or separated is my
recommendation.
You've also got to ask if you do end up
having a long term relationship, how long is it going to last, before
another woman comes along and he is off with her. He's had an
affair with you while being married, so what's stopping him from doing
the dirty on you too. So it's often best not going there.
A few things concern me, i've been
telling myself not to get involved with him as he has a wife. I'm not that
kind of girl, I can't really avoid him as we live in the same community
and work near each other.
Anyway he has/does continue to flirt with
me at times i try not respond by flirting just being my friendly self.
But he still winks at me. It occurred to me yesterday that whenever he's
around i feel sick. sometimes i have been but he doesn't know i disappear
to the ladies to sort myself out.
There is feeling sick through disgust or
because you are ill and then there's feeling sick because you are
nervous.
A while back (though i've seen him a few
times since this incident our interactions haven't been long, we've both
been busy of late) I had to pop into where he worked he looked at me
seemed to stop for a minute as though he was thinking about something
came over to me and gave me a big hug, not a normal hug friends would
give me felt his hands over my lower back and lips against my neck. He
never did anything like that before.
That definitely suggests he wants to get
intimate with you. This guy is ultra confident. The fact that
he is married, suggests he knows what he is doing with women, he's no
amateur. He knows that rubbing his hands down your lower back and
even more seductive lips on your neck is going to turn you on. The
guy is demonstrating his dominance over women, and women tend to like
dominant men. He can't wait to get you into bed, and take the
intimate touching even further.
Over the time i have known him he has
made comments if he had seen me about, had i been avoiding him (if i
hadn't gone into his workplace) Telling me if i hadn't gone in that day,
if i bumped into him lately.
Just male jokes/humour or an attempt to
make a conversation, whilst also getting out of you what you think about
him. Are you really avoiding him? It's a difficult question for you
to answer without giving away whether you want to see him or not.
I'm certain he knows i like him so why
hug me like that or am i being naive here.
By now, he will know you like him.
Any woman that lets a bloke hug them, put his arms on their lower back
and then the ultimate giveaway of letting him kiss you on his neck.
Most women would have flinched or pushed a bloke away or looked
uncomfortable, if they weren't happy with this.
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