fedup on 23.09.2005
I need some advice. I met this guy at my brothers wedding.
He is my brothers friend. The week of my brothers wedding we spent nearly every
day together and the inevitable happened. As soon as he got of the plane I heard
from him. we have spoken nearly every day for the last 2 weeks. I have been and
stayed with him for a weekend. He was quite sweet and tactile in the house but
not outside. My cousin says she gets mixed messages from him. One minute being
quite sweet and then the next minute playing it mr cool. My brother and his wife
have been doing some prying and I told him this. His return comment being that I
am a good girl, full of fun and we are good friends who happen to have sex. Now
I am confused? Is he having his cake and eating it and why does this always seem
to happen to me?Sam's
Response
For Fedup
"Is he having his cake and eating it?"
Unfortunately sorry to say this, but from what you said, that is exactly what he
is doing. And more than likely doing it to many other women as well.
Recommendation: if he is like this, ditch him!
"Why does this always seem to happen to me?"
As I say in one of my articles, never have sex with a man for at least the first
few dates. That way you find out if you have got long term potential or if he is
just trying to get into your knickers.
In reality though, women tend to radar in on the wrong men. It is only after a
few years of experience with men that you can start to pick out the
nymphomaniacs from the men looking for a long term relationship. All men
ultimately want sex but you have to distinguish whether they want sex and a long
term relationship, not just the sex on it's own.
See one of my past articles for more recommendations:
How do I find a guy that is not just
interested in sex?
Click
here to Ask Sam some questions
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