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foxy lady  on  10/04/2006

i have fancied this guy for over 2 years i was thinking i should move on and i tryed but everytime i see him my love for him increases again he goes to the same club as me and i want to continue goin to this club during a game of truth or dare i had to say who i fancied and i said his name he had a girlfriend at the time so i thought he wouldnt care less, he was sitting next to me at the time and looked interested, from then on he flirted with me alot and we were making out by the end of the day

If he really fancied you, then he would have continued to see you and ditched his current girlfriend.

but however a week afterwards i saw him again he showed no interest in me at all and was flirting with one of my friends

He wouldn't do that, if he valued you as a potential girlfriend.

a week after that i stopped goin to the club and i heard from one of his brothers he had a new girlfriend i was devastated i started goin to the club again and he was being un friendly and not talking to me properly and not making a effort i couldnt understand why,

Yes, he obviously isn't interested in you. Otherwise he would treat you better.  And the fact that he is treating you badly, should completely put you off him anyway.  If he is treating you badly now, he is more than likely to treat you badly when your in a relationship with him.

so i meerly thought oh hes not interested in me anymore i have to get over it and he keeps making me do stuff like cook for him and do washing up etc

Why do something if you are not getting anything in return.  He is just using you.

and i cannot resist his hypnotising eyes i told him i didnt fancy him anymore and got quite close to him and then i was stupid enough to tell him i fancied him again u raised his eyebrows and said oh rite but nothing more so i left

As far as I can see, he knows you fancy him, so it is up to him to make a move on you.  There is nothing more you can do.

help me i dont know if he is interested or not i cant get over him im almost obsessed with him hes all i think about help me!

If he really fancied you, he would have made a move on you by now.  Because he hasn't made a move, he obviously doesn't want you enough.  You don't want to be with a guy that doesn't want you lots.  So just forget about him.  Women always want even more, something that they can't have.  But I have got to say this guy sounds as though he really is not worth having.


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