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hoping he likes her on 18/01/2006
i am very attracted to a guy from my
local pub and we have known each other now for about 3 months. We only
see each other in the pub about once a week. Trouble is although we get
on really well and I feel he likes me, I am not sure if he fancies me. He
will always have 2 drinks (because of the drinking limit) and then leaves
after this. I would think that if he was interested in me he would hang
around. He did tell me once that he is slow in warming up to someone. We
are both divorced, (no children involved) similar age,(late 40's) so
where can I go from here. I always appear cool as I dont want him to run
a way if he thinks I am too keen, but who makes the first move in this
one?
Sam's Reply
I
don't have enough information to provide you with a comprehensive
answer.
It
seems that you do not know him well yet. And as he is slow in
warming to someone, he probably needs plenty of time before he will fall
for a woman. (He has probably had a really bad time with women in the
past, particularly as he is divorced).
I
think you need to give him and yourself time to get to know each other
before either of you jump in and make a move.
He has
to make the first move, but you also have to tactfully Show you are
interested occasionally.
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