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Joanne34 on 16.02.06

I work as a receptionist for a car company in Nottingham. As I work in the show room i see the same sexy sales guy everyday! Im 19 and hes 31! The age isnt a problem for me at all!

Good, your an open minded woman.

When we first made eye contact it was great! I cant explain the feeling but it just me feel and loved up and happy! I have a feeling he felt it too! He is constantly busy with customers so we dont have time for proper conversations..but he has to walk past me to go where ever he is going!

That's a good thing initially, because it gives you the chance to check each other out, without actually having the pressure to have a long conversation.

And i love it! He always winks and smiles and asks if im ok..and If im reading or writing with my head down (so i cant see him) he will come behind me and poke me or make me jump....In your opinion is this a good thing?

Definitely, men generally don't touch women they don't fancy.  I am sure you don't touch men you don't fancy either.  He's being playful and attracting your attention.

Is it just office flirting or something more!

No, definitely not just office flirting.  Lets face it, he could easily lose his job for sexual harrassment, is he really going to risk that just for a bit of office flirting.

We are going on a work night out next friday and im so nervous! I really like this guy and dont wanna blow it!

Everybody is nervous, both men and women, when they meet up with someone they fancy, even if they don't show it.  No one wants to blow it, but apparently psychologists say, this nervousness has a positive effect because it makes us look more attractive (as if you didn't look attractive enough!).  The adrenaline rush, sends blood to the essential parts of our body, for example the lips and away from the stomach (hence the butterfly feeling in your stomach and lack of appetite).

We are both single so i think it could work! even as a friendship as he is so funny!

Friendship is the best way to see it initially, if it goes beyond friendship then it will instinctively happen.  Though men are not usually satisfied with just friendship.

he does not treat me like a kid like i thought he!

would as he is older! he treats me if not the same better than anyone else!

Men find younger women more attractive, because they are more fertile and have in most cases had less sexual partners.

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