He told me I had nice knickers

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lil miss1987 on 30/11/2006

i fancy this guy in college. we make eye contact all the time and today he told be i had nice knickers which means he must of been looking. do u think he likes me?

It definitely sounds as though this guy is interested in you in some way because he has been bold enough to say that he likes your knickers. This is not the sort of thing you would risk saying to women you are not attracted to.

The fact that he makes eye contact is definitely a good sign, because it indicates that he is not just looking at your knickers but also looks into your eyes. By looking into your eyes, he is demonstrating his confidence and an attraction to you. It takes a lot to look someone in the eye, because eye contact can be quite intimidating for both people. And if he looks into your eyes too much he could risk rejection, by being too intimidating and looking too desperate.

You certainly don't look into the eyes of someone who is not attractive or someone you don't see as a close friend. If you walk into a bar and look into the eyes of someone you don't know, you are more likey to cause a fight than signal an attraction to someone. The "Who are you looking at?" phrase.

The fact that he was looking at your knickers, definitely means he has some interest in getting his hands on those knickers and finding out what you have inside them. He is definitely trying to put into your mind a sexual side to your relationship by commenting on your knickers. Whether this means that he is only interested in getting into your knickers and is not interested in a long term relationship I don't know. Personally if I want a long term relationship with a woman, I wouldn't take the risk of commenting on her knickers because this might scare her off. I would only make these comments once I knew her very well. So I don't know whether this guy has made these comments early on because he is not bothered about the risk of losing you, if his comments about your knickers put you off. Or whether he just didn't think before saying it.

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