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loopy lou on 25/03/2006
i have been with my boyfriend for 8
months now.i was seperated for a year before we met and very happy.he
moved in with me and my 3 children after 3 months of seeing each other.
we always had fun and he made me feel very special always. now we have
started a business together and for the last few months he seems to be
distancing himself from me. he doesn't touch me that much and kisses are
just short pecks.
This does tend to happen in a
relationship, though it does seem to have happened a bit too soon in yours.
Take a look at this web page on Love Signals, stage
5 in a relationship.
i feel i'm always giving emotionally to
him and getting nothing back.
Have you spoken with him about it, and
asked him calmly how he feels about your relationship. You have got
to ask him at the right time, not when he is busy doing other
things. This conversation may make or break the relationship but at
least it will give you an answer about where you stand. If it
breaks the relationship, then there was a good chance it was breaking
anyway, it just means you are finding out sooner.
i am mad about him but i just feel that
he's gone off me and i'm unhappy. i feel i was brave enough to walk away
from an unhappy marriage to end up feeling the same way in a new
relationship.
A relationship is a two way thing, you
have both got to be happy, you are rightfully unhappy about the way he
has been treating you, but he might not know there is an issue with
you. Men are not psychic, so you have got to discuss it with him,
men don't particularly like discussions about relationships, so he probably
won't like it, but at least you can clear the air, one way or the
other. As I said this could make or break the relationship.
The good thing that could come out of it, is he could reassure you that
there is nothing wrong, and start to pay you more attention. The
bad thing is he might prove that he is not happy in the relationship
anymore. Certainly don't push him for an answer, give him time to
think, men need time to think about things.
he had a bad time in the past not to do
with women, but i feel he needs to let go of this and move on or our
relationship will go nowhere. how can i make him the attentive loving man
he was before or shall i give up.
Don't give up, you should try to discuss
it with him. There is no point in being unhappy or trying to guess
that he isn't committed to your relationship anymore. The
discussion will decide whether you should give up or not.
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