lovelylisa on 18.08.2005
a couple of weeks ago a man me and my friends had spoke to a
few times was talking to my friend,i was talking to another friend at the time
and just turned to say hi and carried on talking to my other friend.I could hear
bits of their conversation and i herad my friend ask him about biting her
bum...I had told her that i fancied him before.The next thing i know is he was
biting mine and not hers,that obviously got my attention and turned round to
talk to him.He touched my arm or back most of the time we were talking and i
touched his arm too,at one point he took me away from my group and spoke to me
on my own...Not long after that my friends told me they were leaving so i had to
go,before i went he hugged me and gave me a peck on the lips then i got dragged
out of the pub by my friends...There are four of us who go drinking together and
we all fancied him before this happened,and have all said that it didnt mean
anything.Last time a saw him he asked us to go out with him and his friends and
introduced two of his mates to my friends and we couldn't take our eyes off each
other.My friends saw what we were doing and tried to make me look stupid and
telling him to ignore me and that i couldn't afford to go anywhere with them
even though that wasnt true.After that he left the pub he did wave as he was
leaving.What i want to know is does he fancy me or are my friends right and it
dosn't mean anything...Sam's
Response
Men in the know, will often pick a woman in a group that they don't fancy.
It is less threatening for a man to talk to someone they are not attracted to.
It also usually makes all the other women present jealous and interested in him.
He can then tell from whether the other women make an effort to speak to him
whether they actually fancy him.
He definitely fancies you. Men don't go biting women's bums if they don't like
the look of your bum. Would you bite a man's bum if you did not fancy him?
Then just to confirm it, he starts touching your arm and your back. He obviously
can't wait to get his hands all over your body. Judging by how fast he was
moving it is a wonder he did not give you the creeps, which is usually what
happens when a man does that to a woman.
Again that peck on the lips, a man would not kiss a woman, particularly on the
lips unless he was seriously interested.
Yes he really was trying to get your friends out the way and pair them with his
friends. So he could spend more time with you. Ultimately your friends are not
going to fancy his friends though, because they are too excited about competing
for him to be bothered with his friends.
Your friends are the competition. They fancy him to, and in typical girly
fashion, they try and manipulate the situation to push you out of the equation,
so they can get their hands on him.
It's conclusive, he fancies you!
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