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lovelylisa on 18/08/2005
a couple of weeks ago a man me and my friends had spoke to a few
times was talking to my friend,i was talking to another friend at the
time and just turned to say hi and carried on talking to my other
friend.I could hear bits of their conversation and i herad my friend ask
him about biting her bum...I had told her that i fancied him before.The
next thing i know is he was biting mine and not hers,that obviously got
my attention and turned round to talk to him.He touched my arm or back
most of the time we were talking and i touched his arm too,at one point
he took me away from my group and spoke to me on my own...Not long after
that my friends told me they were leaving so i had to go,before i went he
hugged me and gave me a peck on the lips then i got dragged out of the
pub by my friends...There are four of us who go drinking together and we
all fancied him before this happened,and have all said that it didnt mean
anything.Last time a saw him he asked us to go out with him and his
friends and introduced two of his mates to my friends and we couldn't
take our eyes off each other.My friends saw what we were doing and tried
to make me look stupid and telling him to ignore me and that i couldn't
afford to go anywhere with them even though that wasnt true.After that he
left the pub he did wave as he was leaving.What i want to know is does he
fancy me or are my friends right and it dosn't mean anything...
Sam's
Response
Men in the know, will
often pick a woman in a group that they don't fancy. It is less
threatening for a man to talk to someone they are not attracted to. It
also usually makes all the other women present jealous and interested in
him. He can then tell from whether the other women make an effort to
speak to him whether they actually fancy him.
He definitely fancies you. Men don't go biting women's bums if they don't
like the look of your bum. Would you bite a man's bum if you did not
fancy him?
Then just to confirm it, he starts touching your arm and your back. He
obviously can't wait to get his hands all over your body. Judging by how
fast he was moving it is a wonder he did not give you the creeps, which
is usually what happens when a man does that to a woman.
Again that peck on the lips, a man would not kiss a woman, particularly
on the lips unless he was seriously interested.
Yes he really was trying to get your friends out the way and pair them
with his friends. So he could spend more time with you. Ultimately your
friends are not going to fancy his friends though, because they are too
excited about competing for him to be bothered with his friends.
Your friends are the competition. They fancy him to, and in typical girly
fashion, they try and manipulate the situation to push you out of the
equation, so they can get their hands on him.
It's conclusive, he fancies you!
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