I met a guy last year and i knew i had completely seduced him so much so that although he is arrogant and strong i felt i had conquered him, yet he seems to be so aloof and seems as though he is beyond physical needs more spiritual and controlled,i feel as though without realising he conquered me, as he can take or leave me,but i hunger for him and he just says he knows but he cant committ and says he worrys that the more he sees of me the more i will want him,please explain how i beleive him and am weak when i conquered him?

Sam's Reply

Most guys that are arrogant and strong, don't have any shortage of women after them.  They can simply move from one women to the other, because most women will fall for the charms of arrogant and strong men.  That is probably the reason why he can't commit.  Because he knows he is going to be moving onto his next conquest once he has finished with you.  He maybe doesn't want to get your hopes up or doesn't want to hurt you, so wants to prepare you for the inevitable, him using his arrogant/strong ways on some other women.  This is not the type of man you want to be with, and the sooner you and many other women realise that the better.