Mels on 17.10.2005
iv been seeing this man for the past year and a half, at the
beging it was great he told me he was falling in love with me, then the next min
he was saying i 'cant give you what you want' so we would spilt, then a week
later would be back together,these silly game carryed on for mounths, he then
said he was in love with someone else, so split again, but he still would txt me
and say he's missing me, like a fool id still have sex with him, now the
realsionship is over with this other lady,and has came running back to me, hes
still in love with her as he has told me. but since that realtion spilt with
her. we have became very close again, all the signs are there,
he is alot older than me, and wonders what i see in him, think he maybe insicure.
iv asked him whats going on beetween us and hes saying he cant commit, but he
says he cares for me so much.
what shall i do im in such a mess!!Sam's
Response
Hi Mels
The fact is, that he keeps leaving you for another woman and keeps saying he is
unsure about your relationship. What I would decipher from that is you are not
special enough to him to be considered his number one woman. And indeed he is
unsure about whether he wants to have a relationship with you at all.
The way I see it, is a bloke should treat the woman that he wants, as number
one, no swaying off to other relationships and then coming back. Most blokes
that do this are simply taking the mick out of women. Using their ex-girlfriends
for sex when they are going through a rough patch.
(Sorry!) My advice: ditch him and find someone that sees you as their number one
woman.
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