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puzzled on 28/03/2006
I met an attractive professional model at
my next-door takeout on Dec 7, 2005. We ended up at my place, having the
takeout and then foreplay (we'd have had sex if we had a condom). He
called on Dec 18 and we had sex and again on Dec 28.
He didn't spend the night on either
occasion. On both occasions, he'd simply call and say he wanted to come
over. We live about 5-10 mins away from each other. I never heard from
him after Dec 28.
Sounds like he was getting his sex fix on
request and then leaving. I know he is an attractive professional
model, but that doesn't mean he is a great catch. He probably has
loads of women offering sex, once he's got bored with one he'll move onto
the next. If he's going through a sparse patch, he will go through his
past phone numbers and find a shag until he finds someone else.
The way I see it, is if he wanted a
serious relationship with you, he would have wanted to see you more often
than the 7 December, then Dec 18, then Dec 28 and he would have contacted
you again. He's just playing you, so ditch the idea of getting with
him, find a decent bloke instead.
Then on March 22, I came out of the post
office in my neighbourhood and heard someone calling my name. It was the
model! He was in the shop next door & saw me walk by. I went to the
shop, waited for him to pay. Then I thought he was done, so I proceeded
to leave the shop, only to find out that he wasn't quite finished yet. So
I decided to walk to the nearest bin to get rid of the tissue in my
hands. The bin was about a few shops away. He came out of the shop,
walked towards me and we chatted. The chat was just chit-chat: how've you
been and all that. (I did ask him if he was working on that day cos I
wanted to spend some time with him, but he had to work.)
He must think I wasn't interested cos I
walked away (to the bin) and I never explained that. I didn't even say:
it's nice to see you again or it'd be nice to meet up sometime. I didn't
even ask if he still had my phone no.
I think he had to be interested to come
out of the shop twice to acknowledge me, right?
He gave me a kiss on both cheeks and
said: I'll see you soon.
However, I still haven't heard from him.
He's playing about with you. Keeping
you sweet, like dozens of other women.
Do you think he was interested in seeing
me again? Do you think he'll call? (His face was a bit swollen due to a
dental problem; could that be why he hasn't called cos he's embarrassed
by it?)
If I was a model, yes I would be
embarrassed about a dental problem, in fact I'm not a model and I
definitely would avoid contact with women if I had a dental
problem. But really how long has he had this dental problem, since
December 28th. I think you will find he will contact you at some
point when he wants to come over and give you one again, sorry to be
blunt. But this guy is probably playing you and many other
women. He'll show you enough interest because he wants to keep you
sweet.
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