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shanne on 20/05/2006
I have recently started a new job and on
the first day, noticed a really good looking guy sitting at his desk. I
recall glancing at him and thinking how nice he was but thought he was
out of my league. I'm quite a shy person but would rate myself very attractive
in looks and dress.
Shy women should attract loud blokes and
shy men should attract loud women. Being shy can stop you from
meeting people, but it doesn't stop you from being attractive.
It has got to the point where I fancy him
so much that can't look at him when he passes me. I noticed he was
glancing at me and I was doing the same to him and at one stage we met in
the works kitchen and stuck up a conversation. He told me about putting
in his notice that day as he had found a new job and that he was taking
his driving test.
All week he and myself have been having
sly looks at one another and I really don't want to miss out on the
opportunity to get to know him better as he is leaving soon.
If you are both mutually looking at each
other, then it sounds very positive. But it sounds as though you
don't know each other well enough yet to be able to decide whether you
are right for each other.
I am too shy to make a move and cannot
handle rejection What do you think I should do, wait for him to make the
first move?
I think you should wait for him to make
the first move, but you should also try and have as much conversation or
contact as possible to help you and him decide whether you are right for
each other. And to give him chance to make a move on you. It
is not the time to be shy, so you are going to have to make some effort
to lose that shyness for a bit. If nothing happens before it is
time for him to leave, you could always say to him, I would like to stay
in touch here is my mobile number. That way, you are not asking him
out but you are stating you want to see him again.
Does it sound as if he is attracted to
me?
It's too early to make a judgement, sounds
like he likes the look of you, if he keeps looking at you, but whether he
fancies the whole package (including your personality), it is too early
to tell.
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