i have fanceyd this lad for ages but i havent got the courage to ask him out
because im a shy person. some of my mates thinks he likes me too he looks at me
a lot and. when i have been out with my mates i have seen him and one of them
shouted theres the girl ben fanceys but i was with three other girls he has
already turned one of them down. so it just leaves me and my other mate please
help me lv star
Sam's
response
If you don't have the courage to ask him out, then you need to at least
have the courage to speak to him or give him a chance to speak to you.
Don't think of him as a potential boyfriend just think of him as a potential
mate. If you manage to think of him as a mate, this will make you less
nervous around him. Just imagine you are speaking with a male friend that
you do not fancy.
The conclusion that you can devise from your situation is there is a 50%
chance he fancies you and a 50% chance he fancies your other friend.
Don't presume because you are shy that men don't fancy shy women.
Some women are shy at first but when you get to know them they open up and are
very entertaining.
He may confuse your shyness as meaning you do not fancy him or he may
confuse your shyness as you are playing hard to get or do not fancy him.
He may confuse your shyness as being someone that is not really interested or
noticed him, in which case you may become a challenge to him and that will make
you an even more attractive option. He may see your shyness as a potential
woman that is an easy target for his charms. There are so many
possibilities.
The fact is that both he and you have to make the right moves and right
decisions to get together (if it is you that he fancies).
If he looks at you a lot and doesn't look at your other mate as much then
it would have to conclusive that he fancies you (based on the fact that you said
he fancies either you or your other mate). But it is your friends
interpretation about whether he looks at you a lot, so you will have to rely on
their opinion because I am not their to see your situation.
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