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storegirl on 25/04/2006
This guy at work looks at me loads, we
speak a lot. I often leave it to him to approach me so he does some of
the running here and that way I know he must have some interest in me, he
asks about myself all the time and remembers what i say.
Yes, I think from that you can safely say
he is interested in you in some way.
I sometimes approach him and ask him
about himself too as I'm hoping he'll get the message I like him.
Yes, I certainly think you
should start showing some interest in him before he gets bored or thinks
your not interested, or before he finds someone else.
But how, apart from being blunt and
telling him can I let him know I like him in a subtle way and not scare
him.
You don't need to openly ask him
out. You can make him fall into a trap. Have plenty of
conversation with him, eventually if you are thinking right, you will be
able to trap him into asking you out. It could be that you ask him
what he is doing this weekend and you say you like what he is doing or
fancy doing that as well, it is then up to him to bite and say well do
you want to join me. Or vice-versa you think of something he might
want to do, and tell him your doing that at the weekend and if he bites
you can say he can come if he wants.
He kept winking at me today and going red
when I spoke about undressing!!!
Enough to make any man blush!
and when I said his car was nice and I'd
love a spin in it.
Sounds a bit corny to me, but at least you
are expressing to him, that you are interested. I don't understand
women's obsession with a man's car, as if all men with nice car's are
nice people?
How can I get him alone and tell me what
he is thinking?
You just need to carry on having relaxed
conversations, eventually the time will come when one of you will make a
move. Pretend you are just close friends initially, and once you
have got closer, one of you will make a move.
and let him know I want him?
Just be fun, never give him the brush off
and never give him an indication you want him to go away (even as a
joke). If he gets the feeling you are having fun with him, then he
will surely think you want him at least as a friend and possibly much
more.
Don't tell me to just tell him because I
never could.
I know most women are
wimps, they use the excuse that it is a man's job to ask the woman out.
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