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susie on 01.02.06

I am interested in a guy who is divorced like me, both no dependants, and we get on extremely well. I often see him out with his female friend. I don't think there is any romance there at least I didn't think there was until last week. I was having coffee with my friend Sylvia, when he came into the cafe with this lady, as they do every week. I was talking to Sylvia and tried to hide behind a pillar that was in the way of both of us. Not because I didnt want him to see me, because he had already smiled and said hello, but I wanted him to be more curious in me. Sure enough he changed seats and had a better view of me.

Reply by Sam

That is quite strange that he physically changed seats, so you were in his view.  You could conclude from that, that he doesn't fancy that other women and he was moving seats to get a full view of you.  But it is not conclusive.  Does he know you?  If he doesn't know you and smiled and said hello, that is more conclusive.

I was chatting to Sylvia with my elbow on the table and hand on the side of my face. After a while, I looked over to him and he was doing the exact same. Could this be mirroring, or does this only happen when you are talking to that person? Just curious as to if he likes me or not!

Reply by Sam

Yes that counts as mirroring.  If he can see you then he can easily mirror you.  As long as the person sat opposite him was not doing the same in which case he may be mirroring her. 

A good way of you finding out though, would have been to move to another position and see he adopts a similar (not necessarily same position).

But you have not stated enough for me to be convinced whether he fancies you.  You have simply stated he moved position and the sun could have been in his eyes.  He was mirroring you or maybe he was adopting a comfortable position.  I always say you need several convincing indications that someone fancies you, but those are not convincing indications, you need more.

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