I am interested in a guy who is divorced
like me, both no dependants, and we get on extremely well. I often see him out
with his female friend. I don't think there is any romance there at least I
didn't think there was until last week. I was having coffee with my friend
Sylvia, when he came into the cafe with this lady, as they do every week. I was
talking to Sylvia and tried to hide behind a pillar that was in the way of both
of us. Not because I didnt want him to see me, because he had already smiled and
said hello, but I wanted him to be more curious in me. Sure enough he changed
seats and had a better view of me.
Reply by Sam
That is quite strange that he physically changed
seats, so you were in his view. You could conclude from that, that he
doesn't fancy that other women and he was moving seats to get a full view of
you. But it is not conclusive. Does he know you? If he doesn't
know you and smiled and said hello, that is more conclusive.
I was chatting to Sylvia with my elbow on the table and hand on the side
of my face. After a while, I looked over to him and he was doing the exact same.
Could this be mirroring, or does this only happen when you are talking to that
person? Just curious as to if he likes me or not!
Reply by Sam
Yes that counts as mirroring. If he can see
you then he can easily mirror you. As long as the person sat opposite him
was not doing the same in which case he may be mirroring her.
A good way of you finding out though, would have
been to move to another position and see he adopts a similar (not necessarily
same position).
But you have not stated enough for me to be
convinced whether he fancies you. You have simply stated he moved position
and the sun could have been in his eyes. He was mirroring you or maybe he
was adopting a comfortable position. I always say you need several
convincing indications that someone fancies you, but those are not convincing
indications, you need more.