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susie on 01/02/2006
I am interested in a guy who is divorced
like me, both no dependants, and we get on extremely well. I often see
him out with his female friend. I don't think there is any romance there
at least I didn't think there was until last week. I was having coffee with
my friend Sylvia, when he came into the cafe with this lady, as they do
every week. I was talking to Sylvia and tried to hide behind a pillar
that was in the way of both of us. Not because I didnt want him to see
me, because he had already smiled and said hello, but I wanted him to be
more curious in me. Sure enough he changed seats and had a better view of
me.
Reply by Sam
That is quite strange that he physically
changed seats, so you were in his view. You could conclude from
that, that he doesn't fancy that other women and he was moving seats to
get a full view of you. But it is not conclusive. Does he
know you? If he doesn't know you and smiled and said hello, that is
more conclusive.
I was chatting to Sylvia with my elbow on
the table and hand on the side of my face. After a while, I looked over
to him and he was doing the exact same. Could this be mirroring, or does
this only happen when you are talking to that person? Just curious as to
if he likes me or not!
Reply by Sam
Yes that counts as mirroring. If he
can see you then he can easily mirror you. As long as the person
sat opposite him was not doing the same in which case he may be mirroring
her.
A good way of you finding out though,
would have been to move to another position and see he adopts a similar
(not necessarily same position).
But you have not stated enough for me to
be convinced whether he fancies you. You have simply stated he
moved position and the sun could have been in his eyes. He was
mirroring you or maybe he was adopting a comfortable position. I
always say you need several convincing indications that someone fancies
you, but those are not convincing indications, you need more.
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