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Written by Sam
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This page is an index of the last 250 articles from the 4 sections of my web site:
1) Does he fancy you 2) The Date 3) The Relationship 4) Sexual Desires
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What makes a guy that is already getting sex, to want sex with me too?
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We are both married and he texts sexual stuff but when we meet nothing happens
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what makes a guy not want a relationship after a long term relationship has ended?
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I have a cousin and lost my virginity to her husband but things can't happen cos he's got her
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Used to see him years ago and he said we had unfinished business, what does that mean?
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Absense makes the heart grow fonder only seems to work for girls and not guys
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He gives me intense eye contact and has touched my waist a number of times
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He asked for my number and hasn't really be in contact, even though we've seen each other since
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My male friends say I'm too attractive and that's why I only get the wrong guys approaching me
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I've started seeing a guy but him and my male friend keep arguing over me
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We've seen each other every week for 6 months, but he says he doesn't want a girlfriend
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I've lost interest in sex, if a guy really was in love wouldn't he stand by me?
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Will it prevent a guy asking me out, if I make him jealous by saying I fancy someone else?
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He broke up with me saying he wasn't interested in me sexually anymore
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I whispered in his ear, he kissed me, then I left, now I haven't seen him since
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I'm a single father and I noticed an older woman who smiles at me occasionally
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I really fancy him but i don't want to have sex this early on when i barely know him
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Some men don't admit if you make them angry. Is that true?
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I asked him if he wanted to meet up for a drink, should I text him?
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He is my first love and I want him back, but he says there's too much distance
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He fancies me but he just wants to be friends, I'm older and married, but why?
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He said we can't have hot sex anymore, because I cook his meals and look after him
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I want to have a child but my husband said he doesn't want another child
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She is overweight and has low self esteem, do you have any advice for her?
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He said it was on his mind that he didnt do more in the bedroom which upset me
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I went on a date with a guy, then the next time I saw him he ignored me
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Since the beginning of the relationship, he's talked about having an affair with me
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He wants to see naked photos of me and have one last sex session
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We had sex, then he didn't contact me for 2 months, so I contacted him
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Is it better to be not so available to keep him interested and not be too available?
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He keeps photos of a woman he liked and he won't delete them
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My boyfriend wants to watch me having sex with another guy, is this a lack of respect?
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Is a fashion conscious guy going to fancy a woman who is alternative in appearance?
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He said to the others he was married, was that to make me back off?
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My boyfriend of 11 years has split with me and has gone off with another woman
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What does it mean, we should meet up outside of work but just as friends?
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Can guys really have sex without feelings?
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I fancy you and I dunno, I think I have a pull over you
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I'm engaged and thinking of getting back with an old guy, will he think I'm a slut?
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Is it more important for a guy to have security or love?
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He was shy and unconfident, I've build his confidence up, but he hasn't made a move
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I caught him looking down my top and he touched my legs and back
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We dated, then we've just become work friends, is he interested?
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Can he be in love with his current gf, if he writes to his ex and want her to sleep with him?
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He said it feels like unfinished business with us and wants to have sex again
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You helped me to improve my self esteem and realise I should take what I deserve
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Why would an ex-boyfriend want to have sex with me when he's in a comitted relationship
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When we have a conversation he often repeats back to me what I said
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I heard some guys can be really nasty to a girl when a relationship has ended
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We are both married, does he just see me as a friend?
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I had sex with a colleague, he said he doesn't want to hurt me but we work together
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He teases me, listens to my conversations, I've tried talking to him
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Are guys still tempted by their Ex when they are happy and in love with someone?
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My ex always wanted one last time, what is it with Exs wanting this?
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What should I do to keep him, only for sex though, what is the chance of him calling me?
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We used to have hot pervy sex, now he feels he can't, is this because our relationship has changed
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Does he care about me or does he view me as a sexual object?
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He keeps looking and smiling at me, but we can't chat due to nerves
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My boyfriend watches porn, he won't show me, I said I would change for him
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He broke up with me 5 years ago, now he is saying "what if", what does that mean?
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He kissed me, then at work the next day, he was a bit odd at first, then got back to flirting
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I am extremely attracted to my former university advisor who is 15 years older
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When our work colleagues found out he dumped me straight away
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Why do some men find it hard to leave a marriage when they are unhappy?
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We had a relationship a few years ago, now he says he wants to but is in another relationship
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I fancy my fathers surgeon but he said I must wait until my father has finished his treatment
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My female friends say my short hair looks great, my male friends complain that I should grow it
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We chatted for a while during the party, then he ignored me for the rest of the party
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A guy at work keeps coming over to chat to me and talk about his family, does he like me?
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He flirted and texted and then his friend said he didn't want to lead me on but was seeing someone
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I'm going out with a guy but fancy his friend more, but don't want to affect their friendship
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What would you say are the signs that a guy has fallen in love with you?
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I found some emails from his ex-friend, does he want to get back with her, what is he thinking?
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I was having a brilliant relationship for 4 months, then I told him I worked in the sex industry
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I don't want to hurt the guy and with and finish him, but I fancy another bloke
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He said he doesn't want to see me again, but still fancies me and that it's making him stressed
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I rejected him twice, now he wants me to send him nude pictures of him
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I'm finding it difficult to get to know him and wondering what to say
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He asked me if I was his favourite, I asked him he said, yes but...
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I'm in my thirties, look younger and I'm not sure what to wear or how to have my hair
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He said he needed to use our wedding money to pay off credit card debts, then bought a gold chain
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Is he playing mind game with me to prove that I love him, he heard rumours I was seeing someone
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My husband confessed to me that he liked another girl and he felt weird when he looked at her
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He felt hurt after the fling because he thought I never fancied him
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When he has a lady for sex, he informs me and apologises
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He gives me a lift home, but I'm living with a partner and he seems nervous about making a move
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He said he's not ready to commit and wants to date other women, yet he contacts me everyday
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My boss is touching me and mentions sexual things and I feel some chemistry between us
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My father told me I was ugly, I'm frightened that my partner of 13 years does not find me attractive
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I had a fling with a guy on my course, I didn't want anything serious but he still seems interested
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He wants to have sex with me and keeps using other women to try and persuade me
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He contacted me by MSN, then he went quiet, then I got his phone number and he was angry
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His girlfriend found a text and phoned me, then she asked someone we worked with
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I had to cancel on him because I was busy, then I text him when I was drunk, now he ignores me
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How does a man know he loves her? He's said the words but I'm not sure whether he's joking!
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I can't make my mind up between Girl A or Girl B and I'm frightened I'm going to lose one of them
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I wasn't getting anywhere so became less friendly, short and sweet and stayed away from him
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I text him once he didn't respond, so I left it, text him again he replied at first but then stopped
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Do men like athletic women and women who have stronger builds or is that a turn off for them?
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Top 11 things that put a guy off in the early stages of a relationship or dating
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Is his nervouness a sign that he cares about me and does not just want to have sex with me?
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He said he just wants to be friends but keeps giving me mixed signals
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I put my hand on his arm and said he looked stressed, we both looked at each other
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I looked away quickly as I felt embarassed that he might have realised I was looking for him!
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He made loads of mistakes throughout the date, so he can't be that interested in me
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He said he didn't fancy me anymore, then all of a sudden he had a new girlfriend
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Why do men rarely say what they mean? He said he sees us as friends.
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We had a relationship for 9 months, he hasn't contacted me and hasn't even sent me a letter
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My girlfriend cheated on me, now she wants me back, but I'm not sure I want her back
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How would I be able to view from a man's actions whether he sees me as short term or long term?
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I've moved in with my boyfriend and he keeps photos of his wife and the rings at the house
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His eyes looked at my eyes, then travelled slowly down my body, he's started talking to me again
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A guy I know caught and held my eye contact through the entire conversation, what does that mean?
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A relationship expert said you should wait 3 months until you know someone before having sex
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His flatmate was listening to us having sex, then he started being flirty, does he like me?
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I'm really tall and my male friends say I'm a blokey lady, is there something wrong with me?
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He was all over me but I didn't want it to go to sex, when I next saw him he was a bit awkward
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He walks by me all the time, he's starting wearing a similar colour and tries to get my attention
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He brushed his feet through my legs but I just wonder if it was an accident
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I haven't had a relationship before, I don't want to tell anyone this because it will put them off
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He wants to be with me all the time, but won't have sex, even though we sleep in the same bed
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His friend called me ugly and we had an argument, now neither of them will talk to me
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He chats to me everyday but still won't meet up with me, he is still chatting about his exgirlfrien
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If a man is saying with his actions that he wants to be more than friends but with words just friend
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He bought me flowers on valentines, I don't want a relationship, do you reckon he fancies me?
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I told him I don't fancy him anymore, but I really do, does he fancy me?
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He says a lot of things to suggest he fancies me and said he misses me
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I don't love the father of my child, so had a relationship with someone else
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I've split up with my boyfriend and he's been nasty to our son and I
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We both go hot and cold on each other and we are both arrogant and strong
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Does it take a long time to convince him that I'm a better option than his current girlfriend?
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I text him to say I was thinking of him, then I text to say my friends were messing about
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I work with a guy, we play fight, but he talks about his girlfriend, does he like me?
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I couldn't meet over christmas, then I asked him to meet in January, but now he won't
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I got drunk, we started to have sex and then I was sick on him, will he ever forgive me
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As a woman I analyse every word to him, but I don't want to seem desperate
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What can I do go get him interested? He's useless at communication
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He said he just wants me for sex, yet he keeps talking about marriage and children
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He has a girlfriend, but he looks at me and mirrors my body language
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Be yourself, showing yourself too available is a turn off for women, but not for men
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Had sex with my flatmate, he said he's still getting over his ex-girlfriend and just wants sex
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What should I get my boyfriend for valentines day?
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I meet a married man at conferences, how can I hint to him I just want sex and nothing else
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He'll talk certain time, but then won't speak to me in the street
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We were great friends, I had sex with him, then he stopped contact with me and my husband
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My long term boyfriend satisfies me emotionally, my secret boyfriend satisfies me sexually
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I told him how I feel about him, he said we should have a chat, but we never have
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What should I do on my date to say, I'm just interested in getting in between the sheets?
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I'm 21 and he's 40, we go through phases of sex and then end up on bad terms
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He said we should meet up, I text him three times and he said he's busy and then didn't respond
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I've had 6 serious relationships and the guys just leave, what am I doing wrong?
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He went quiet on me, ditched me, then said he wanted to be friends, then held hands etc
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I fancy a guy in his forties, he's been hurt before and seems very possessive of his independance
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I told him I liked him, he said he was flattered and respected our friendship
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I asked him out for a drink, he said he wouldn't want to mess me about, he isn't a player
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He asked for a kiss, I blew him one and he said no come here
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I fancy this guy and my mates said I should go out with him but the rest of year reckon he's ugly
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I sent a lady a text saying I love her after two dates, was that too early or wrong timing?
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We were having a casual sex relationship, but now the sex has stopped and we are still friends
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What are some ways that I can give hints that I fancy him?
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He's lived with a long term girlfriend, what would you do in this case
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We've been seeing each other for 7 years for sex, now I have a new boyfriend and he's not happy
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He asked me out, I couldn't make it, so asked him out, he still hasn't arranged anything
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Do you think its possible for a man to switch from sexual interest to seeing you as a potential mate
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I asked him if he wanted to meet up, he seemed keen but hasn't responded to anything since
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I met him three years ago, we rarely see each other and I'm in love
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He said I feel so stupid, what does that mean, then he hasn't contacted me for 2 weeks
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My brother has been with his girlfriend for 10 years and she treats him badly
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I stopped kissing him because I felt guilty about my husband, but now he's gone cold on me
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Does it automatically mean a guy is lying if he doesn't give you eye contact when saying nice stuff?
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I feel devastated that my ex is happy with someone else, I want to get back with him
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I made out with another guy, he said he had to go now, why did he over-react?
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I was too worried about being turned down to make a definite move
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He split with his girlfriend and got with me, then got back with her, then came back to me again
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As he left he caressed my arms as if he didn't want to let go.
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I keep on attracting the wrong type of guys, what am I doing wrong?
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He said he would call me and 2 weeks have passed and I've found out he's on a singles web site
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I spend a lot of time together with a guy from work and I'm wondering whether he likes me
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What are the signs that a guys into you during the early stages of dating?
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He contacted me regularly but then I've noticed he's taken me off his facebook profile
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We had a great date, then he hasn't replied to any of my texts
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My boyfriend says he will never ask me to leave my husband
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I find your advice column repulsive, you blame women and degrade men
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I'm 22, never had a boyfriend and I'm scared about the prospect of having sex
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I don't want to be over eager but he's giving me mixed signals
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He asked me for a second date, but before arranging it he text me and asked me how I was
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If a guy is charming and loved by women, is that a guarantee he will be a faithful lover
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He said I have a good personality but doesn't take it any further
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I saw a few texts on my boyfriends phone from a girl he dated
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I'm not looking for a relationship but if anything happened then it wouldn't be a problem to me
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I met a guy and he gave me his phone number and asked to meet so he could help me
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We talk about sex all the time, but when I touched him, he told me to stop being naughty
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I fancy a guy and think he fancies me too, but I'm best mates with him and don't want to spoil that
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When we have an argument he goes back to his ex and says it's just for the sake of his kid
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He reacts aggressively to conversation and becomes defensive, he wants the relationship to continue
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We had sex, he lost interest and told me he didn't want a relationship, just wanted to be friends
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If a guy pursues a woman and acts cocky, should he act in a more respectable way towards her
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We will see each other to have sex, stay a little while talk and that's it
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We had sex on the sixth date and now he doesn't intiate contact, I have to initiate contact
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He stopped holding my waist and started holding my hand instead
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He hasn't got over his ex, he says we are all fun and nothing more
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I'm afraid to get into a relationship after being attacked five years ago
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One of our male friends, keeps telling all of us the same jokes and the same compliments
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He never acts like he likes me in any way other than a friend
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We went to the cinema and he didn't show any interest in spending more time with me
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I text him the next day to apologise for my drunkeness, he hasn't responded should I call him?
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I haven't seen him for ages, I've tried contacting him through genereunited but no response
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If a guy touches a woman at the first stage of flirting, is that a sign he just wants a casual fling
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I think he is gossiping that I like him, is he trying to boost his own ego?
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We've been dating a couple of months but I've found out his age doesn't tally up
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We have a good rapport, surely if he was interested he would ask me out?
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He finished with me, but keeps contacting me all the time, I want him to stop contacting me
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He asked for another date, a few days later he said he couldn't make it, can he re-arrange
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He doesn't speak or approach me, he just smiles at me and stands there
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He has a cocky attitude and keeps going hot and cold
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I've heard he has a girlfriend but he hasn't told me that
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When I got with someone else he started acting sad and would stare down at the guy
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He completely ignored me as if he was waiting for me to approach him
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I became pregnant through failed contraception, then had a miscarriage and he wants try for another
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We rubbed cheeks, he buried his head on my neck, then gave me electric eye contact
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He forgot his mobile phone, but now he said he's memorised my phone number
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He asked me a personal question, I said what are you asking me that for, without smiling
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If I laugh at something he gives me a really nice look
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He was staring over at me, I think I'm falling for him
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He let me sit on his lap and he played with my hair and kissed me on the forehead
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He puts his arms around a woman then looked at me suggestively
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I was with him for 2 years, he never introduced me to family or friends
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We have a secret relationship, he has a girlfriend, but when he kissed me it didn't feel right
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My ex was good at sex but insulted me, my husband is poor at sex but bores me, I want sex with my ex
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Will he ever make a move, he's much older and suffers from low self-esteem
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I'm thinking of dating guys a fair bit older and from professional backgrounds
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He flirts, then he goes quiet, then he flirts again and goes quiet
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He makes no effort anymore and when I confront him about my feelings he doesn't see anything wrong
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He's married but he called me darling, He said the word hair, looked at mine and his voice cracked
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I screwed it up by being too keen, now I'm with my new boyfriend, I'm having an affair with my ex
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Does he fancy me or is he engaging in harmless flirting to make his work day more interesting?
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I talk every night with this guy but he has a girlfriend, I know he likes his girlfriend lots.
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He's with his girlfriend but he says he loves me, kisses me, then he's cold with me other times
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I'm polyamourous and met this guy, but when we met again things seemed uncomfortable
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He's the father of my unborn child but he's with someone else, but he said he still loves me
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He's talking about other women to make me jealous and I just think he's being disrespectful
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A guy turned around and winked at me in class, I don't even know him
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He says beyond the exterior he prefers the just got out of bed natural look
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He has told me, I'm as beautiful as always but he says he is a loner
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I just want to sleep with a guy and leave, can this be done, will he think I'm slutty
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When he was driving me home and at the same time he was looking at me in the back seat
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He said that if we made love it would be the end of him and his ex
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He won't do anything apart from work, watch movies or the pub, How can I reform him?
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We met up quite a few times, but then all of a sudden he would go quiet
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