I went to an event with my friend and get to know this guy "A" through her friend's friend's. We had a very normal conversation like sharing about our families, background, works, interests

These are standard things to talk about to help a bloke decide whether she's a friend, a potential girlfriend or just somebody passing by in his life. 

and etc. and he got only my no. and said will call me out if there is other activities coming up and we hug goodbye. (he is a good-looking, smart, rich guy and I am only an ordinary look, normal body shape girl)

That means nothing to your chances.  I'm a good looking, smart, rich guy and I'm looking for an ordinary looking, normal body shape girl.  What matters is personality, though body is important too, it's usually secondary to personality to a certain extent.  Though guys don't realise that themselves, they believe they are only attracted to women that other men are typically attracted to physically.  In reality though, if a guy sees your personality as perfect, his brain will start to tell him that you are physically attractive to him.  For your personality to be perfect, you have to fit in well with his personality, if he's quiet he's more likely to go for a chatty woman etc.  The other element is sexiness, he might see your personality fits in well with his, but if you don't turn him on sexy wise, he's likely to see you nothing more than a friend.  There are several ways you can turn a guy on sexy wise and that's by talking about sex, touching him, moving your body in a sexy way or wearing provactive clothes.

He never called for outing until 3 weeks later; and he apologize for taking too long to ask me out and told me that he lost his simcard and he was going through all the friend's connection (as he is just same like me cause we only knew the friend that brought us to that event) and said he hasnt forgotten me follow by asked me out for activity of my interest but i couldnt make it at the end.

so i tot of asking him out for dinner but we ended up going to a bar with his friends and my friends. He is very nice and cares about me and always wanted to talk and sit closely to me. And later on when he heat to another places, i were sitting in his car alone and he start with normal conversation and then says that i might giving too much pressure to look for a bf and i should just fling and have fun and slowly lead to the sex topic (but he did mentioned that its ok if i feel uncomfortable to touch on this topic)

Don't quite understand all that?  Was he bringing sex into the conversation?

I just tells him that i don't believe in sex before marriage and told him that my ex do respect me on that for 1.5 years. and he said he would not date a girl for 1.5 years for not having sex with her.

Not many blokes would nowadays.  But really they should be able to, if they really do fancy a woman so much.  The problem is guys have got used to being supplied with sex within a few weeks or maximum of a few months.  And when he doesn't get it, he's going to move on to an easier woman.  In reality though, if he really fancies a woman he should be able to wait, but typically guys require a really good looking, special woman to wait that long.  Waiting 1.5 years just seems daunting and impossible for a guy and he'll be left thinking, that he's never going to be able to wait that long and remain faithful, so he's more likely to move onto someone else. 

and i should live in majority and he keeps going on and on about me shouldn't have this kind of thinking and ask why am i so ambitious about this and tells me to think at the guy side.

He's telling you to think like this, because he knows he's not going to be able to put up with this.  He wants to shag you and he doesn't want to wait that long.  A century ago, guys would have been expected to wait this long, sex before marriage was something to cringe about, now sex is just available on a plate to a guy.  Nightclubs are the ideal place for a guy to go for sex, plenty of drunken women that also seem to want to have casual sex.

and I just hold on and said i'll just depends on fate then and he was trying to say that its fate that bring us to meet each other and tells me that he feels very comfortable and he likes talking to me.

Despite these beliefs he does still fancy you, most guys would have just given up by now, if a woman said that.  But this guy is being persistent and trying to persuade you otherwise. 

and tells me that he has such connection with me and and ask me about my love history and ask also what am i looking on for my next bf..then he told me about his past history and he broke up with his ex bcause he cheated on her once and said sometimes just cant resist temptations..

You don't really want to be with a guy who is like this, he's going to be cheating on you no time. 

and then he goes he trust and understand on the virginity thinking because he has other friends that have the same thinking as mine.

we just end the night by giving me a goodbye hug and ask me to call him out for dinner again next time.

and he hasn't call or sms until today so am i. and the 2nd outing with him was on last friday..

my question is, is he going through so much trouble just to get me onto his bed? if he still interested on me?

In my opinion if he wasn't genuinely interested in you, he wouldn't have carried on trying to persuade you.  So with you it's not just about sex, he actually does fancy you.  But the truth is, this guy is not going to wait 1.5 years to have sex with you.  He's going to either give up, if he hasn't persuaded you within a few months, or he's going to be having sex with other women until you are ready.  So he's not just trying to get you into bed, he is interested in you, it's just that sex is a very important thing to him and he's not prepared to wait 1.5 years for it.  Which is sad in a way, because if a guy truly likes a woman he should be able to wait, I'm sure a lot of guys managed to wait in past centuries, it's just that now, guys have sex on tap, so they would find it unbearable to wait.

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