just a quick question really I was just wondering when you keep catching the eye of the same man and you get that butterfly feeling and hot and flushed does that mean hes experiencing it too, or is it just wishful thinking because sometimes i think he felt the chemistry then.

If he's giving you the exact same eye contact at the same time, it's very likely he will be experiencing the same thing.  I wouldn't say it will be a mutual feeling every time, but I would say more often than not he will be feeling the butterfly feeling if his eye contact matches yours.  As for the red flushing it depends on the guy, I think the hot flushes show more obviously in certain people than they do in others.  What I can say is that men definitely do get these butterfly feelings and hot flushes, I've certainly experienced them a few times before. 

But then later when i analise everything i think dont be stupid how can you know what hes feeling, he was probaly looked at me by accident at the same time i was gazing at him or whatever, i dont know.

This depends on how long he was looking at you.  Usually the lady is first to break eye contact and then he will break eye contact with you shortly afterwards.  Then a guy will usually look back to see if you are looking again, make sure it wasn't just a co-incidence. 

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