My Fiancee works as Close Protection in Iraq. He's away two months then home a month. I'm sure he loves me but I'm a wee bit concerned. He's working with a very attractive young blond Newzealand girl who is very good at her job. He obviously respects her and likes her. They've started walking together every day. He sent some photos recently and they are standing together sharing a beer.

I've got to say that drinking partners are not necessarily partners that you want to have a long term relationship with, they are more friends, that you might slip up with and have sex with whilst your drunk.  Women that drink and particularly women that drink pints are not typically at the top of a guys wishlist for a long term relationship, they are more of a short term fling option (she's drunk, he's drunk, they slip up and have sex). 

They are stuck together there 24/7 for another five weeks at least. I don't think anything is going on yet... What can I do to keep it that way?

I really don't think there is too much you can do.  A partner being away is not an ideal kind of relationship, there are always going to be people that are away with him who actually know more about his current life that you will.  The truth is, if he really likes you then he'll either not have a relationship with her, or have a discreet relationship but still come back to you at the end of it all.  I'm not excusing this behaviour, I must point out, but I believe many men and indeed women would succumb to this temptation.

Needless to say I haven't mentioned this to him. I noticed today when we wee chating on msn that he's wearing a new necklace round his neck. He said it was given to him by one of the Kiwis... He's so far away. How do I keep his interest?

Make sure you don't give him any grief when he comes home, make sure he enjoys his time at home with you.  The best way to do that is for you to be relaxed and make sure you show him a good time.  That way you maximise your chances that he will want to stay with you.  If he comes home and you start saying "what is with you and this other woman, are you having an affair", raging temper?  Then he's going to away and think my wife has turned into a raging paranoid psycho, I think this other woman might be a good option.  Or if he comes home and you make no effort with him or refuse to have sex with him or you sulk or give him a bad time at home, again he's going to think, what's the best option here.

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