So many women seem to have a problem with thier guy using porn, that I just wondered what the problem actually is!

Hi Pinkshirt!

I don't personally have a problem with guys using porn, i think some women are stuck in the false thought that they are not happy with them just because they like porn. Each to their own i say!

IMO, if they are using porn for thier fantasies, then at least they are'nt using another woman! LOL

That is such a true point! At least with such a variety of porn on the market they can indulge their fantasies etc.. otherwise like you say god help poor vunerable women at the mercy of some creeps! - not saying all men that watch porn are creeps obviously - just the minority of creeps out there that thank god they can have porn!

Same with prostitutes - ok obviously if i was involved with someone i would not like the idea of them using a prostitute whilst we were together - watching fantasies one thing performing another thing! but with some men then thank god for prostitutes as otherwise...

I have no problem with porn per se. I have quite a health collection of fetish and bondage porn myself.

However, when I'm in a relationship, I have had a problem with a guy using porn rather than coming to bed to have sex with me because I've seen it as him having an issue or problem with the relationship that he isn't dealing with. And usually, they hide the fact they're using porn and start lying and again that's an issue. I'd say that was problem the issue most women have with it. After all there is no point in feeling intimidated or threatened by the women in it...is there.

I don't see it as a problem with the relationship;it's just the way men are.

We fall in love with them and although other men may turn our heads, we don't often think about them in relation to sex UNLESS we are having problems in our reltionship.

I think men may be different in that respect. They LIKE to look at other women; It's a bit like the joke about the TV remote control - women want to know what's on TV; men want to know what ELSE is on! ;-D Hey, as long as they are LOOKING and not DOING (with other women) I don't mind