Why
are Men so insensitive?
The majority of men are not socially intelligent. Men do not
think like a woman does. Our brains are different and we are brought up
differently.
I think you can safely say that most men do not talk as much as women. Talking
is a talent women have, men talk but not particularly well. Even when men talk
to their friends it is usually disjointed banter. When they make public speeches
it is usually prepared well in advance.
Women find it easy to make a conversation and are very adaptable at moving the
conversation onto another topic, men struggle to adapt the conversation and can
not hold a conversation for as long as women. Of course there are some men that
are born with female oriented brains, so there are some exceptions.
The majority of men do not set out to actively offend a woman by saying
insensitive things.
They say insensitive things for a number of reasons:
- They word things wrong, so that they sound insensitive. Saying one thing but
meaning something different.
- They don't understand what is insensitive to women. When men talk to other
men, anything goes. In fact the more outlandish the comments to another man, the
more funny other men find it. They forget that women do not like to talk about
the same things.
- Women analyse what men say and try to find an inner meaning to what they say.
In general there is no inner meaning to what a man says. So men say one thing,
women hear something else because they analyse it as if it was a woman talking.
- Then there is the loaded question. Need I say anything about that ladies.
Where you ask a question that has no correct answer. That is very cruel and
plays on the fact that men are not socially intelligent. Naughty ladies!
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