I
always attract guys with No personality! Why?
First of all there is no such
thing as “No Personality”. All men and women have personalities and they are all
unique personalities. “No personality” is an irritating phrase manufactured by
women who thought they were super attractive, and they have past this bad phrase
onto all women. I used to hear it in the 1990’s and now all women are saying it.
Other charming words include loser, geek and nerd. Save these words for men that
have been nasty to you, not guys that felt you were so special they built up the
courage to approach you.
The chances are that these guys you are attracting are guys that lack a bit of
self confidence. Life would be boring if all guys were self confident, they
would all have super egos. You may think that “lacking self confidence” equals
no personality but how do you know if you don’t get to know them? Quite often
these men with no personality just need one woman to boost their self confidence
and as soon as they do they turn into very funny, vivacious guys. If you are not
interested in these guys that keep approaching you, just politely tell them you
are not interested, be flattered by the fact that there are guys interested in
you.
I must also point out that he might only be lacking self confidence in
approaching women, it does not mean he lacks self confidence in other areas of
his life. And let's face it, the reason why he is probably lacking self
confidence with women, is because he has had so many dimwits say "Get lost
geek". Calling a guy a geek is bad news for you as well. News travels fast
amongst his friends and associates that you called him a geek, so you have just
ruined your chances with most of the guys in the immediate area. And they will
remember if they see you again in another location. Just like women don't like
nasty men, men don't like nasty women.
My recommendation though is to give a few of these guys a chance, try something
different, spice up your life. Go out with them for anywhere up to a maximum of
1 month, if he is not confident or interesting in that time, then give him the
elbow. If you are lucky you might have found a guy that thinks you are a
princess for boosting his self confidence and enhancing his personality. If he
thinks you are a princess, he will treat you like a princess.
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